I’m an articulate professional working in the field of my college education. I’m looking for a dominant woman for a monogamous long-term FLR.

It’s highly embarassing and I’m ashamed to admit it, but I need to get this out of the way right now. I’m very inexperienced and not just as far as BDSM or kink is concerned. As a result of me being a shy and introverted loner, I’m actually a virgin at the age of 30 like a complete loser. I’m tired of being alone, so I’m hoping to use this website to find an understanding woman who can accept this. Other than these interpersonal issues that I’m trying to address, I’m metnally stable and relatively normal.

Despite my inexperience, I’ve been highly interested in BDSM since I was a teenager. Even though I’ve stupidly denied myself intimacy my entire life, I know this is what I want. The fetishes I’m most interested in are anal play of all kinds and pegging in particular, body worship, chastity, bondage, impact play and obedience training. My scenario is probably more common than I think it is or am making it out to be, but if there’s any woman who’s intrigued by the idea of introducing a submissive male virgin into a BDSM lifestyle by completely bypassing vanilla sexual experiences, this is your chance.

Like everybody, I have vanilla interest and pursuits, some of which can be found in my interests on this page, that I’d talk about to anybody willing to listen. I think a lot of people would consider my world view and political beliefs to be, at the very least, idiosyncratic. I think the truth is on my side and one benefit of my introverted nature is that I’m nearly incapable of denying what I believe to be true for the sake of social acceptance.