Hey there! 

Yes - all my pics are of me. 

I'm a bottom and masochist based in the city of Philadelphia. I exclusively meet and play with folks for the first time at local kink events. If you are not willing or able to attend such events, then all I have to offer is conversation. That said - I'm generally always open to chatting with folks! 

If I had to sum up my kink identity beyond "minion", I would say I am: a service-oriented masochist. At my core I am, and have always been, a masochist; I enjoy pain in many ways and require consensual S&M on a regular basis for maximum happiness and stability. I enjoy S&M play from impact and sadistic rope to needles and electroplay, but that doesn't mean I will engage in every kind of play with every person. While very little of my kink involves sex/intercourse, ALL of my sex involves kink in the of pain or power dynamics. My wet dreams are filled with blood and pain and sacrifice...

I've been a submissive in the traditional sense for a 3rd of my life and it's not what I need anymore. What I seek is what I've been calling a la carte authority transfer with partners, friends, and other entities. Think of me as a modern kinky butler-in-training, with interests that range from bootblacking to table service to being-a-table service and beyond. I'm a very independent, self-deterministic person but I very much enjoying giving authority to my partners in specific, mutually agreed upon places/times/ways. I want to build the connection(s) that works for us, not try and squeeze myself back into a box that anyone thinks I should inhabit.

I am not necessarily looking for any particular kind of partner, but I am open to the possibility of meeting someone compatible for more than non-sexual play. Sex or gender do not matter to me, but I would prefer that folks be close to my age for longer term relationships. I am personally a more monogamous person when it comes to sex but I don't care if a partner is not. I don't do threesomes, but my partner or partners have my blessing to go enjoy them elsewhere! I mostly meet potential partners out in the kink scene but I thought I would come give CS another chance and see who's out there.Best wishes to you!

mollie