Im a 51 yr old bi, poly white male who practices ethical non-monogamy (yes that means my partners know about each other). I stand roughly 6 ft tall and weigh 170 pounds. Im basically your average guy next door with a few twists. Twists I admit I enjoy.  I identified as "Pan" for the purpsoses of this profile but it would be more precise to say I'm bisexual and demisexual (unfortunately they weren't options).

I currently have two long-term female partners (both local to Sterling) and either can verify that I'm not stepping out if that's something you need for your own comfort and assurance.  Please note, just because they are my partners does not suggest or promise they'll be involved with anyone new I engage with.  While they are submissive to me they have their own autonomy to decide who they will or won't be involved with (read as this is a profile for me looking not my partners).  

On the non-kink side, Im a sports junkie Im also kind of a nerd who has a voracious appetite for all things sci-fi and fantasy, and yes even though I'm in my 50's, I do still enjoy video games (hey I'm a product of the 80s).  I also enjoy live music and visiting the musuems and other sites In downtown DC (I'm a history buff).  I have several more non-kink related interests, but this profile is long enough already.

On the kink side, Im still evolving (eagerly I might add). Im not afraid to admit that my current experience has been largely in the shallow end of the pool I do have an affinity for the sensual, psychological, and sexual aspects of submission than I am into more edge play, and I'm by no means a masochist (so not into heavy pain play). I will admit I have an appetite to learn more both through reading and experiencing.

Given my experiences on other sites I should probably point out, Im not looking for one-offs, or  to see how many folks I can collect as play partners. I'm much more about quality than quantity and ideally would love to find something more regular (how regular and to the degree depends on the person and our comfort levels). I get variety is the spice of life, and I wont judge others for living that maxim but just know, its not my personal motto.

Also because its a deal breaker for many (and I dont want to waste either of our time) I am a smoker (tobacco) just putting it out there.