Collarspace

Spent several years in the lifestyle. Looking for new slave partner for longterm and possible live-in in due time if theres a connection. And once this pandemic settles down...

I can be mild (think strict and loving daddy or more extreme. Depends on the fit and the connection. You will probably see both sides of Me anyway...

I am educated, private, physically affectionate and demanding. What you see is what you get with me, always... Highly creative and value the same.

There is a very spiritual side or aspect to my interests here on BDSM. I am very much interested in the mind-body-spirit connection and find that Ds and Ms relationships are even more powerful when thats incorporated.

I am not bald, but shaved.

My dynamic is similar to a Gorean household.

Mind, Body and Soul, eh?

In my belief about the structure of the human, I cannot own your soul. It is the mistaken wish of those who believe they have more power than what is possible for a human to have. A human, no matter how powerful on this plane, does not have the capacity to own the soul of another. At worst, it is arrogant and delusional. At best, an uneducated statement that demonstrates an expression of a phantastical need for power.

The soul of a human, I believe, is that original spark of the Universe that inhabits us all and makes us unique. But it is not owned by anyone other than the vessel that carries it.

I cannot own your mind. I might possess it, control it, manipulate it, free it, encourage it, expand, but I cannot own it. And it is my responsibility as your Master or Dom (if I were) to grow it, make it the best it can be. But then I am a Master that does not wish for nor would tolerate a mindless bimbo kind of slave or sub. Your mind is what controls your body, your behaviors, your attitudes, etc. Your mind should be actively engaged in not only how to best please your Master, but also in how to be the best person and woman you can be. Anything less is just a mind-game... And diminishes both you as a person, and My slave or sub.

Your body? I can in a practical and consensual sense own your body. I can brand it, mark it, tattoo it, control it, tease it, cause it pain, or bliss, etc. But this is just a construct lifestylers have created in order to perpetuate their power positions and constructs within a lifestyle relationship.

The truth is, as a Master, I do not wish to own your body, mind, or soul. I want you to give it to Me because you trust Me to make you the best you can be - not only to please Me, but for your own growth.

About you

Attractive, slim or average build, around 56 or shorter... I especially like petite women...
Long hair is a plus.
Love eyes... Your eyes have to speak to Me... color is unimportant...
You are educated, have a sense of humour, are social...
I prefer bi women as at some point there may be a sister slave.

You are also available emotionally for a real connection. Not interested in just role playing or kink or hookups.

Be yourself, be real, have a good heart, and we will get along very well...

You will be a domestic and sexual slave as well as assist in the business I have which is very much related to the BDSM lifestyle.

If you read the er, you know what I would want from you... and communication and honesty is the key to everything...