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StrictLovingWify
Hetero Female Dominant, 53, Here South Part, Wisconsin US 
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 Female Dominant

 Here South Part

 Wisconsin

 5' 3"

 140 lbs

 53

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 08/16/22

I know what I want!
Do you?

I am the Strict yet Loving Wifey Type

What I Am Seeking is One Exemplary Alpha Male

I am Not a professional

I am Seeking a Male Sub for FLR TPE LTR
ultimately for marriage lifestyle

I do not seek just any man.
I am looking for My lost pearl

You will be an Alpha male in the vanilla world and in your career, a handsome, refined gentleman, intelligent, wise, wildly successful, ambitious, healthy, financially and emotionally stable, well traveled, physically fit HWP, masculine, generous, kind, thoughtful, giving, you live a luxurious life within your means, you have exemplary qualities, you knows what you want and you are ready to live this lifestyle.

The type of male I am seeking will most likely be running his own business


This should help those who are guessing if they are the type of male I am seeking

This is not a passing thought for you as it is not one for Me
You have thought it through and are ready to live this lifestyle

There must be some physical attraction and meeting of the minds

I am seeking a mature male
Maturity has nothing to do with age

I am not seeking a boy, even though I may call you My boy

you will protect Me
you will provide for Me,
you will serve Me
you will service Me

I Will Relocate Too you or where we desire

We will design this relationship together through many discussions
All within reason and sensibly, always safe and sane
We can decide together how far down the rabbit hole we wish to take this

After we know each other well enough to know if we have potential
We will plan an approximate date to meet

After many conversations and Once we know each other well enough and we have agreed to the details of what we seek
Then I will create a plan which will be a blueprint of the lifestyle life we desire and will live.

I will Not discuss My kinks and fetishes with you in the beginning.
I am not granting fodder for those seeking it

I Aim to have a successful lifelong relationship ultimately marriage with the right man.

I am a Private person and I expect your public reputation is important to you as well

I have lived true FLRs

FLRs are not about kinks and fetishes although some kinks and fetishes are great tools and rewards in this lifestyle
I am open to what you desire in these areas

I will expect you to exchange contact inf ormaiton and some basic ide ntifying inf ormation at some point to show Me you are Not playing an online game And that you are Truly Serious and Genuine

I am a micromanager within the realms of our agreement
I am a strict yet loving nurturing mothering wifey type
I discipline and I control or gasms

I get two votes you get one if you are lucky

I want to use your brain, hear about your experiences, life, and the wisdom you hold within you

You will not lack self esteem

I want to hear what you think, feel and know
I will take your opinion into consideration but I will have the final say
All within reason and by design of our agreement

Once I feel I am ready to meet you I expect you will meet Me or we will part ways


Now you have an idea of the male I seek

Do Not Disappoint Me

After reading My profile in Full, IF you feel you qualify to approach Me,
Then please do send Me a respectful, detailed message
Tell Me about you and your life
Tell Me what you envision,
what you seek,
your desires,
Tell Me your experiences
Tell Me what you bring to the table
Tell Me what you have to offer Me in life and lifestyle
Express to Me what you truly Need
Then express what you think you want if you are unsure

I am a lovely Lady, attractive
At the onset of this profile, I carry a few extra pounds I am working on becoming more fit.
My weight will change at some point.
Although, I will most likely Not up date this profile do the turn around time and down time associated with any slight up dates

My weight should be of no issue I can go up or go down in weight
I have great skin appearing, younger then I am

In our relationship I will dress and look My best
I will expect you to ensure this to be possible
I plan to be better then I am, by always improving Myself
It will be your place to make My life easier not more challenging

I will put 100 percent into the relationship and male I choose
I expect 100 percent from you


Its not about age its about compatibility
Although, chemistry and being attracted to each other is of some importance


I am the Strict yet Loving Wifey Type

I am diverse in this lifestyle to some degree

I am not an extremist
Although, I will take you as far as I need to or to the limits we agree to
If that mean you only take a peek into the rabbit hole, then that is what it will be.
If it means I need to take you so deep you cannot find a way out then so be it, down you go!

I am versatile in My interest I have some set must haves the rest is up for discussion when the time comes if we are compatible

I will always be the Dominant, the Goddess, the Lady, the Mistress, the Disciplinarian, the Governess, the Nurturing Motherly Wife, the Loving yet Controlling Strict Demanding Micromanaging Wifey,

I will give direction, guidance, and discipline

I come first Always in every situation
your needs and desires will be secondary to Mine

you will provide Me with a great life and we will travel among other things

I will have the Best, not second best, Understand


Just like in a vanilla relationship the bedroom scene stays private
Nothing illegal nor disrespectful to the general public nor family and friends

We will share in normal vanilla life activities just as anyone else does

I will be in charge at all times and it will not be a secret even though it will also not be advertised
There will be covert ways to communicate in selective situations to maintain the dynamics between us.


Do Not ask Me to leave this site to converse with you.
You are welcome to offer or give Me your contact or identifying ination to show sincerity or for when or If I choose to move our conversation elsewhere.

The Decision Will Always Be Up To Me and what I am comfortable with, it is your place to make Me comfortable Not uncomfortable.



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IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY NOT SINGLE AND IN A VANILLA RELATIONSHIP or other relationship
But you seek to have what I seek here then you will need to be honest, open and upfront with Me.

Do Not waste My time if you will not end your relationship immediately or right soon after we find we have compatibility

If you truly want this you will find a way
I am not hear for you to string Me along, as I will not you
You should already know what you want and need by the time you contact Me.

Life gives us choices.
Its never the things that we did do that we regret in the end, it is always the things we wish we had done that brings the regret

Its never too late to have it the way you want it
You simply need to know yourself and make up your mind

I am Not here to make up your mind for you.
You had better already have done this before you contact Me



If Your Profile is not fully filled out or If Your Profile is hidden
I will not correspond with you until I can view it and read Your Completed Profile

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I receive a large number of messages

Do understand I will reply onc
5/17/2022 1:11:12 PM: As usual , My inbox overflows.  There are many reasons why I may not reply to a message.  My time is limited. If I allowed it, responding to messages could be a full time job.  There have been plenty of times I have accidentally or internationally opened a message  and found I wanted to reply. However,  I  didn't have time at that moment.  Later to find the message was too far lost amongst the rest. Recently I strolled through the pages of messages and came across a very well written message  from a submissive  who seemed to have potential.   If you send Me a message which is not acceptable . One which does not show respect it will surely not get a kind reply if it gets a reply at all. If I was communicating with you and you did not comply with My demands you can assume I stopped communication.  If I was communicating with you and some time has lapsed there is a good chance your messages are lost in the masses.   If you want My attention write an amazing message to Me. Include a respectable,  recent, clear photo of yourself. Expect to share your email address and phone number if I ask for it. I will not text you.  I will not be sharing My phone number with you,  unless I decide to.    I  will only ask for your phone number if I wish to interview you further via phone. I use no apps, except whatsapp for international.    I am not here to serve you! I expect you come to Me to serve Me.

5/10/2022 1:06:35 PM: When you tell Me you are single, divorced, unattached... Then your gf, significant other, or wife finds My contact information and reaches out to Me. you can bet your sorry ass I will offer to teach Her how to correct you.   I expect honesty !  

4/25/2022 4:25:07 PM: A submissive is one who chooses each and every time if he /she will submit.  A submissive often comes with a list of his / her restrictions and requirements.  While a true slave is one who comes to serve in the manner in which the Mistress desires. A true slave makes the decision to submit one time for always.  A true slave may have desires, dreams,  and  fantasies but he / she is not selfish and he / she relinquish their selfishness to serve the Dominant.   It takes a very strong person to live the life of being a slave to another.  To observe a slave growing and one day to see him /her become the perfected specimen  in which the Domme  has created is the goal. The submission of a slave is very admirable.  I seek that slave! The one who will serve Me always, under My safe keeping, and owned  by Me.   

4/24/2022 8:08:24 PM: This is the way it is! If I ask you for a photo of you. That photo will be respectful, clothed, recent, and clear. Anything other will not be acceptable. If you do not comply with providing photos, email address, and phone number so I can interview you further then you will be dismissed. If you are so insecure you won't supply simple content and contact information when I request it, then you are not a potential candidate. Step to the side, turn around and walk away because I assure you there are plenty waiting to step up to the plate and serve exactly the way I desire them to.   If you do not like My rules, Too Bad, because I make the rules, not you.  

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