Collarspace

I like to think of myself as being entirely rational with this side of my life.

Im not crazy mean or crazy controlling. Im just incredibly dominant. I lead conversation but try not to be the only one talking. I know what I want and what I like and at times that has to be the priority but Im not just trying to fuck around anymore. I am a human being like every one else and I want all of the same things. Because of that I dont like to lead with fear or any kind of over-the-top cliche domme archetype. I think when someone you look up to sets expectations and you dont meet them you naturally feel shame and its the dominant persons position to be a good leader and create a structure that addresses the problem.

You arent a toy, you are a person. You deserve a measure of respect. What measure of respect is entirely up to you but it is, at the end of the day, up to you and based on your actions.

All of that said, I love to laugh and be goofy and balance this side of my life with reality.