My favorite lesson I have learned as a sub is that successful dynamics come with time and patience. It is also important to find a partner you can trust and build a deep connection with.
What I have taught someone else is that freedom comes from letting go and trusting the process. The goal is to serve my dom and from that I get to give up control and yield to him which leads to a greater sense of freedom for me as a sub. I am happy if he is happy.
I would like to further the skills of my role to a point where my submission is less of an action of consciousness but comes naturally in everything I do.
Looking for good connections, I want to know a person before their role. Genuine curiosity from both parties is a good start.
3/16/2023 4:41:33 AM: I wanted to add I have relocated to South Carolina but figured it was easier to add a journal post than to submit my profile for approval. Looking for authentic connections and non tourists to the lifestyle. For myself, the lifestyle is about power exchange. Sex can enhance that but is just the cherry on top, not the whole Sundae.
