I guess I have been into BDSM since my first ever relationship - at that time it wasn't as mainstream or certainly as accepted as it is now. It's also getting your head round that as a teen and how to live with it in your life.

 

So vanilla me. I guess I would say I'm the stereo typical "normal" guy. Not a social butterfly - I don't need huge amount of friends or a massive social circle. Recently rediscovered model making. This year for me is a fresh start and part of that fresh start is realising that any relationship has to be kink based. I have close family ties and when in a relationship always put that person first.

 

Kinks

 

I guess that I should move onto kink me. This is where it gets a bit of a mish mash. I like a lot of things on the spectrum - there are some common kinks that underpin this.

So common kinks - bondage - huge collector of restraints - collars,.cuffs, chains, bondage belts and leg shackles. I like rope though shibari appeals to me it's more than bondage.

Impact play - again huge part of my kink make up - canes, paddles, floggers, crops, belts and the old fashioned hand.

Clamps etc are also part of what I like to use.

 

Dynamics

 

So DDlg is a lifestyle that I very much enjoy. The opposite ends of the spectrum - the caring and nurturing side Vs the punishment side, the cuddles and film nights Vs the desire to corrupt the innocence, things like bath and shower time whilst wanting to fuck your brains out. I hope this makes sense.

Ds/Ms as a minimum any relationship should have the ever present Ds dynamic in vanilla situations. Ms is definitely something that I want to progress either short or long term.

TPE - I would also be more than happy to long term aim for a TPE relationship.

 

So I guess that's me. Fortunately I don't work in sales.

 

I reply to all, and to be quite frank I'm getting pissed off with ghosting especially when you have been chatting and things seem to be going well. I don't get why people don't just say something even if it is sorry not for me....

 

Anyway it would be good to chat to genuine people and go from there.