I have been in the lifestyle on and off for most of my adult life, exploring BDSM, Kink, and just my overall slutty nature so sufficed to say, Im definitely not a newbie.

Ive had casual play partners and long-term 247 and I definitely prefer long term. That is where the meat and bones are, that is where the magic happens. The trust builds and walls crumble and next thing you know, youre comfortable sharing and growing together.

This life is in my blood and lets face it, once youve had a taste and liked it youre hooked. So here we go...

Im looking for a Dominant man 40-58, NOT MARRIED, who is good at life and equally good at enjoying it. A Dom who takes pride in his appearance and likes to be active. Strong and capable but kind and humble at the same time. A man who knows when to be gentle and snugly and when to push and expand boundaries. I believe a stern look and a steady voice can be just as binding as rope or shackles.

Outside the bedroom I fall more in line with traditional stereotypes, I am a woman whos strong enough and independent enough to take care of myself, but old school enough that I prefer to defer to my Dom as the head of the household.

Short term I want a partner that I can get to know, enjoy spending time with and explore our kinks together and see if they mesh.

Long term I want a relationship full of mutual respect and honest communication free of judgement so we can grow together.

I need structure and rules in my life! Knowing where I stand and what is expected of me is extremely important. Communication and openness creates an environment where I can feel free to explore and try new things.

Im picky as fuck but then we all should be, right? I am an equally strong and intelligent woman with a lot to give. I am a professional woman with various interests and hobbies who loves good conversation, great music and has a zest for life.

I have really been into hypnosis files and orgasm control lately so definite bonus points if you are knowledgeable.

Sharing my safe space with another woman will never work for me so if you aren't looking for your special someONE then I'm not your girl. 

-- I am extremely liberal in my politics and life choices i.e abortion, birth control, lgbtq rights and separation of church and state. I pretty much detest all organized religions and am an avid gun hater so if any of that bothers you we wont be a match. I am a pacifist to my core and feel we can always be better humans not just to each other but the world we live in and the creatures big and small.

I wish you all the happiness and Thank You for taking the time to read my profile!

P.S. if you dont have a photo or attach one to a message, odds are I wont respond.