3/26/2022 7:22:09 PM: When approaching ME, the first question to ask yourself: What am I? 1. Pursuing a genuine in-person relationship, offering yourself for an ongoing journey of some kind, or are a qualified FLR Matrimony applicant? Are you capable to offering something useful and beneficial to ME? Are you successful? Handy? Skilled? An expert of some kind? A great writer? Conversationalist? Generous with all things? Eager to please and satisfy, even the demands that escape your interests and enthusiasm? Great at errands, tasks, and all those pesky things no Lady should be forced to endure? Are you suitably intelligent and obsequious? Are you reliable, and a pet of your word? Are you emotionally mature and ready to give of yourself physically and personally in whatever way I desire? Are you able to take your place and await My next glance with all the patience and pleasantness of My lapdog? In My world, no one needs be all things, but you must be SOMETHING to be SOMEONE. 2. An alter-world femdom Visitor, a Tourist, or a wanker. The first two have their place, as I am a woman of rapacious appetite and love kink as a daily occurence, even somewhat casually, but I simply won't tolerate wankers. Sure, My personal standards are lofty, and BDSM tourism is for some, the only avenue. I've taken great pleasure twisting up, bossing down, and erotically tormenting total strangers, many many times, and there's something to be said for the diversity of a rotating stable. If you are a Tourist or Visitor, make this apparent and be honest about your availability and schedule. BDSM Visitors and Tourists are held to the same standards of a relationship, but modified and adjusted to the situation. I expect ALL correspondence to be courteous, thoughtfully composed, and honest. I still have needs, afterall, both sensual and mundane, and they come first, absolutely first, or you are cast into the pit of forgetfulness as a WANKER.  Whomever you are, be ready to verify yourself somehow, talk on a phone with a real number, and potentially meet. Also Remember, finding and losing messages within the hundreds of pages of email here is a perpetual battle. Keep this in mind when writing intros and conversational refreshers that are informative and helpful. Attach photos as much as possible, and be to the point about things like potential meetings. Such limited time! No wanking!