No sex involved.
I have various interests as I travel through life. I am a rather shy guy until I get to know you and understand expectations. For a relationship to work, compatibility should be an important part. It helps us enjoy each other.
I am retired but do enjoy traveling, walking, some golf, dining out, movies and just sitting down enjoying good company.
Growing up, Mom raised me because Dad was away many times. As such she provided the discipline. The was to teach respect and loyalty to me. At times I was subject to room restriction, cold dinners for being home late, and groundings. There were things, like lying, stealing and talking back to her, where she provided corporal punishment with a garrison belt. So, BDSM isnt so strange to me.