Dominant male with nearly 15 years experience, which means I am getting old and I know what I am doing.
I always have a difficult time boiling myself down to an easily consumed wall of text. I consider myself a multifaceted person. I can be sadistic and cruel, loving and gentle, serious or silly, fair or unfair. If you are looking for some uncaring, unfeeling monster who will lock you in a box and only take you out to hurt you, keep moving. If you are looking for a guy who will lock you in a box on occasion, hurt you at times, but also want to have you on a more emotional level, I might be him.
I am a sarcastic, fun-loving person by nature. I want a submissive woman who is capable of laughing, sharing more than just bodily fluids, and can hold their own whether we are discussing the best way to kick an arse or the current geopolitical climate(!). I want your body less then I want your mind.
My interests are varied. Just because I am into something doesnt mean I force that on someone else. I respect limits. I might push a bit but I will never shove. I also am open to new things. I will, however, never engage in the following Scat (cause that shit is nasty), Underage people being involved (suggest this and I will report you), Non-consensual (why would I want to force someone when there are so many lovely people who are willing?), Animals (they cant say yes or no, plus its just gross).
Having not been on his site for a good long while, I'm reminded of one of the things I missd the most about BDSM: Dommes who secretly maintain a desire to submit. I truly miss making that connection with a Domme -- building the trust between us until she admits such hidden (often with shame) feelings and desires. it's good to be able to help pople engage with their true desires. There is nothing shameful about being a sub or a slave. Both require bravery and commitment. Often much more than being a Dom/Domma
Today is St.Valentine's Day. I hope that all the miserable worms on here -- yes you included dear reader -- get suitably thrashed in rapturous gleeful celebration....
