Latest Update 2023,06,07

DISCLAIMER: I'm not here for hookups, meet ups, no strings attached, threesomes, sexual or romantic play. And that includes not being here to submit to arrogant men. I am a dominant, you will not change that fact about me. Let it go.

All I really desire here is to find mindful people to have some pleasing conversations with without them condescending or behaving passive aggressive.

While yes, this site is majorly for erotic kink, it is also a site for a community.

I am here for one thing only. 

If you'd like to converse with me then we do so as equals. Nothing will or indeed should change that. Not your nationality, race, sex, sexuality, age, or whatever else. Just two adults. 

A simple custom bio of myself

Name, Soph or Sophie

Age, 23 (post 2023)

Gender, Female (she,her,hers)

Height, 183cm, 6ft

I'm a secular buddhist and a humanist.

My simple rules. 

1, Please keep small talk to a low.

Im pretty shit at it, and find very low interest in it. If you desire a genuine conversation with me, you'll want to avoid that. So if I go quiet on you because you insist on continually asking how my day is three times in a row, you now know why.
It doesn't mean we must immediately jump to a very topical or advanced topic, however. Just enjoy the moment. 

2, Abnegate from Arrogance.

If you start showing arrogance towards me, I'm going to cut it there.
Show a modicum of respect and that will be repaid.

This includes patronising or undermining me simply because Im younger than you, or the age that I am.

3, Abnegate from Misconceived Dominance.

I am not a submissive.
Nor am I a switch. I never will be.
There is no point in attempting to project your supposed dominance.

And for those of you who will inevitably be offended by this comment, message me with an insult then block me, I'm glad you've let a total stranger get to you. 

4, Dont call me Miss, Mistress, Domme, etc.

If you desire to use a proper honourific, then Ma'am suits fine.

5, Compassion, Respect and ultimately Humanity.

Upkeep these simple rules, and well be fine.

Many of these rules are necessitated by continuous trespassing of simple boundaries. 
For those of you who will also inevitably perceive this as anger, apparently, I pity you. And I question if anyone has ever said No to you.

I have a No Shit policy, so please refrain from crossing boundaries. It's quite simple. Let's talk as adults with a modicum of respect for one another.

Always try the best you can in the place where you are.

And always be kinder than necessary.

I wish you luck and a good day. Ganbatte!