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PLEASE offer a polite intro with more than a couple sentences that repeat what I can already view in your profile. I don't need details of kink interests. If you decide to contact me with a weak intro I will most likely block further contact. THIS SEEMS TO BE OVERLOOKED BY MOST OF THE PEOPLE WHO MESSAGE ME ON HERE

I've made an effort to provide a well written intro here that also offers content to get conversation started. Getting to know someone with the goal to have a longterm TPE relationship requires an investment of time. What's a 2 minute read with that in mind.

Be prepared to go to voice with an app that allows this. This eliminates the catfish phenomenon I've encountered.

I'm a native of Florida. I did live out west. Colorado was an amazing place to explore. I am now living in the Tallahassee area. I enjoy the outdoors, gardening, good music and home cooked meals. Sci-fi, action, fantasy programs and movies. History and documentaries. Even animation with a good story..I'm a crafty do it yourself person so I enjoy various hobbies.

I'm an open book and I welcome polite conversation. I'm employed, not a gold digger nor looking for someone to pay my way or take care of me. With that said, I'm exactly where I want to be and need to be Only thing missing is someone special to begin sharing life with at some point. I'm in no race to change my present location or my primary focus on career and family at this time. Long term, I'm not against relocating if required to pursue my longterm goals of finding a loyal and loving partner (sub/slave) who will accentuate the positives and have as much fun with the negatives as I do.

I dont do events or parties in the scene anymore. I feel those days of glory are long gone due to this way of life being morphed to a mainstream kinkfest that is all inclusive and purely of an erotic nature.

THERE IS FAR MORE TO THIS LIFE THAN THAT SO IF YOU AREN'T AWARE OF THIS FACT, THEN YOU WON'T BE A GOOD FIT FOR ME.

Exploring all of that is fine for those who want to experiment and play adult sex games with others. That's not me. I have no need to experiment and I'm not here to serve as a way for you to try it out.

DON'T VIEW MY LIST OF INTEREST AS A SCORE CARD TO MEASURE YOURSELF AGAINST.

I have a lot of experience because I've lived my life in this for over 35 years. I'm more interested in the person, not a laundry list of fetish related details. I have no concerns with finding compatibility in this area. It takes two and my focus is on what the WE I'm involved in would find interest in.

Now onto a lot of my original profile text... It's as valid today as all those years ago when I first wrote it. Hell, people have even stole my words and placed them on their own profiles. I'm flattered but you'll be hard pressed to express what I write about if you can't find your own words to write.

Thank you for your time in advance for reading and do reflect upon what I am sharing with you now. It's important to me to share openly. Do me the courtesy of following through to the end and only respond with a well written introduction.

LIVE
LOVE
LAUGH
and a huge, TRUST!

If you have any internal struggles with REGRET about pursuing this lifestyle due to what it may have cost you in past relationships or friendships because they couldnt accept you or they judged you... Please carry on and spare me the drama. Im completely comfortable with who I am and so are the most important people in my life. I am not closeted nor do I have to be. Please be someone who is equally comfortable and confident with who you are. I'm not saying you can't be private about it, just don't be ashamed, fearful or remorseful. Embrace who you are!

l was asked... what is domination?

To me it is getting so deep in your head -- so deep that you cant escape my grasp even with me never touching you -- its a grasp that you will feel long after I leave you.

What is domination?
To leave you breathless.
To leave a mark upon you that burns with intensity that doesn't fade... in fact it grows more intense over time as it burns deeper into your core.

Domination to me is taking control claiming everything there is to you, yet leave you wondering how much more you can give.

It is deconstructing the you and taking away everything that societal standards forced you to become and set you free so that I can rebuild you to be completely mine.

Re-evaluation
Reflection
Reboot

Do you long to know that feeling of belonging to a woman who is commanding and confident? One who will take great joy in molding you into the o b j e c t of her amusement and pleasure. I take great joy in this.

Slow motion. Firm grasp. Sharp nails. Warm breath on your neck as I whisper in your ear the verbal hints of the joys and tortures you will soon experience at my knowing hands and twisted mind. Pleasure and pain. Delight and anguish. Both are yearned for as the hunger of being captivated is rarely satisfied.

**Captivate** BeCaptivated

Definition *attract, enchant*

Synonyms allure, beguile, bewitch, charm, dazzle, delight, draw, enamour, enrapture, enslave, ensnare, entertain, enthrall, fascinate, gratify, grip, hold, hook, hypnotize, infatuate, intrigue, lure, magnetize, mesmerize, please, rope in, seduce, spellbind, sweep off ones feet, take, turn one on, vamp, win

Drawn in.

Bewitchment.

What else could permanently imprint her felt presence upon you? Ensnared and fearful. You cant help but ponder, Can I really do this. Can I really give myself to her?

Only if you own who you are. Take a moment and think about what that at means. Trust me, its important. Confident and with zero regrets.

You should be comfortable with who you are and the path you are to embark upon. This means right down to the very core or your being.

Have you taken the first step toward ownership?
Have embraced yourself completely? You will need to do this and through this revelation you can find acceptance. Then I will capture you, addict you and completely possess you. I will rule over you and command your deepest, darkest desires. You will belong to me!

If you feel you can offer yourself to this type of exchange. I will give everything I am to the one who can do the same for me.

So there it is for those of you who have been conditioned to think you have to be awarded some sort of permission to write to me, just do it! Im truly interested in making contact in both the virtual world and in the real world.

12/22/2022 5:04:30 PM: Did you find yourself blocked? 1. You most likely sent me an email that did not offer a proper introduction. If you can't come up with a few details about who you are, the things you enjoy in life, something about why you decided to contact me, favorite foods, movies, music, hobbies, etc... I find this to be a clear indication that we will rapidly run out of things to speak about. I'm someone who wants to know everything I can about who I am speaking with (of course over time). I do have a goal, a vision of what I hope to achieve, varied interests and a strong drive to continue to build upon who I am daily. Complacency is a turn off and won't engage me or my mind. 2. You went straight to topics of kink. Try having that conversation face to face and see how far it gets you. Why should this be any different? Do you think because it's online and written that you can dive right into that conversation? Grow up! 3. I found no indication that actual communication was possible. That your nessage was incoherent, not engaging nor moving forward. Communication is essential. 4. We simply are not compatible. First impressions. I have found that when I ignore my instincts, I wish I had not. Maybe you find this too harsh. Sure, I can respect that. Can you respect that my inbox is flooded with pointless emails that are, for lack of a better word, harassment. I find that harsh. I'm not here for your amusement. Skip your drive thru coffee and go visit the cheap pay sites for that. Plenty of that out there. Trolls, creeps, HNGs are alive and well and very plentiful. Just words, I get it, but it's a huge waste of my time to sort through it all and I chose to spend my time in positive ways.

12/22/2022 5:03:56 PM: I am fed up with those who contact me solely based on the list. (not to mention, when I'm spoke to by a complete stranger as if I were eagerly waiting to carry out interest ON THEM.) I've made it clear I am a real person and not offering myself up as casual entertainment to those seeking out experimental kink encounters. I've also come to understand that the list and level of experience was rather intimidating to many who viewed it. Well, you should be intimidated. The negative was when it was expressed that they feared they wouldn't measure up. I don't like that because all I expect is for someone to be the very best they can be. My role is to improve that in the ways that benefit us both. Trust me when I say that I will get what I need and be proud of my creation.

5/7/2022 5:52:57 AM: One of the most difficult things to do in this process of *getting to know someone' is telling that person you don't think the compatibility is there. Feelings are hurt Anger may be the result Rejection is never a good thing I am often told by people who contact me that one of the things they really admire about me is that I know what I want. Well, that also means I also know what I don't want. Try not to hate me for the very thing you admire about me.

3/26/2022 6:49:45 AM: Updating a profile is often an aggravating experience here. Let's see how the journal feature works now that it's been added. A couple of things I'd like to add to my already very long read of a profile (in comparison to most on here) is that I don't want people to make conclusions based on what they read or view in photos. It appears that some will see images of the more extreme nature and think they won't measure up to my demands and others read the profile and think that the vanilla nature of life puts me in a place of seeking kink in the bedroom. This is where things go wrong. I'm a long term lifestyle dominant woman who is well balanced and stable. My years living this with a few different souls has afforded me the chance to fully explore many exciting avenues along our path. Yes, some were rather extreme and yes I enjoyed every minute of it. But I also enjoyed our life once the implements of their destruction were gathered up and put away. However the power exchange of our dynamic did not end there. It carried on into every ect of our life. They were still mine and I still had the control they surrendered. There was no need to micromanage because we are intelligent creatures. We learn, we adapt and when properly negotiated and respected, we thrive! It's not a mistake that I say we, our and all other words of inclusive. This is not a journey of one giving over and one taking. That's extremely foolish and reeks of inexperience and motivated by fantasy. I live my life in reality and this way of life is very much a reality for those who are fully prepared to embrace it.

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