Collarspace

This isnt my first time here, but its been a while.

Ultimately I seek someone to share my enjoyment of life with. I have worked hard setting my own business for the last ten years that has consumed my focus, but now I am in a fortunate position to be able to enjoy the fruits of the endeavour. I appreciate the cultural attractions of London, enjoying the theatre, and a night of fine food and wine is perfection for me, topped off in good company of friends or a single companion.

I would expect anyone of my age to have a past and I am no different. Through my twenties I enjoyed my experimentation with BDSM a great deal, meeting several great people, a couple of subs before meeting a partner I spent 5 years with. As her interest in Ds waned mine entrenched and so things naturally ended and it made me realise I will not be satisfied with a vanilla relationship.

The partner I seek will have a natural submissive side and desire to please, but I dont take this to mean she cant be intelligent, independent and my equal in many ways. Behind closed doors though I appreciate nothing more than seeing her kneel by my side, nude except for her collar and a leash hanging teasingly between her breasts. Having her hold my glass of wine in anticipation of how I intend to enjoy her brings a naughty smile to my face.

I do enjoy various kink specific activities and Im sure you can read them in my list, but I find it important to say that the dynamic I have enjoyed with various subs has always been unique and I hate the idea of being pigeon-holed into saying what I enjoy the most. What remains is that I have many facets to my personality, and enjoy the conflict of some of them. For all my friends and people I care about I am encouraging and nurturing where possible, but have a sadistic streak at times where I enjoy seeing the dilemma of a sub enduring my crueller ideas in her desire to please me.

I remain busy and with an active vanilla social life and have no desire to flaunt my kinkiness in public. To that end I enjoy the company of equally intelligent and successful people who understand the indulgence of kink as part of a diverse and enriching lifestyle.

If this strikes a chord at all, I shall be delighted to hear from you.