If you are a woman who knows being free to do what you want does not sit well with you then you may be what I am looking for. Widowed white male with no children, drug and disease free seeks a woman who needs to be controlled by a man who has that same level of need to control. I do not see controlling a woman as an act of insecurity like so many bloviate about. People like me and those who need that constant knowing they are under someone else's charge understands our unique perspectives about this lifestyle.

I own my own home and land free and clear in the northern woodlands of Maine. It is a small place, cozy really with all the conveniences one would expect. I live simply and hate where our world is headed. Humanity has lost its collective minds. I offer a small nook of sanity for one female who wants to escape from that insane morass.

The woman who is fortunate enough to be under my dominion will exist to serve me and be cared for. I am into control and know what is best for my woman. I am not a sadist nor seek a woman who is a pain slut. My woman will be a genuine girl who is comfortable in her skin about who and what she is. We will complement each other the way nature intended.

In my stage in life the need for sex is on the wane so the primary reason for wanting a female in my life is for companionship and developing a deep bond between us. Along with the bondage and cages there will be listening and communicating and sensuality and genuine affection.