Just moved to Hawaii and coming back to the site after a few years, I am trying to go to the gym more and be more active in my life style. I have a touch of the tism so if you talk about something I'm interested in I'll be locked in to the conversation. I value my privacy so if and when we become friends ill share photos with you if asked. Kink wise I'll try most things twice because you can't rule something out just because of a one off bad experience. Outside of the bedroom I am very dominant about certain things but receptive on most things. Inside the bedroom for Men/Sissies the best you might get is a reach round, but ultimately you are there for my enjoyment. For women I'm very much a switch if you need someone to take control to get you to subspace I can make that happen, if you need to take control to feel satisfied I'm willing to submit. Overall with woman I'd say I'm pleasure oriented I get my enjoyment from you being satisfied.