Being Dominant is a state of mind.  It is not a sex act nor is it a game.  It is a state of being.

I am a Dominant man.  I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part.  I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

First and foremost, a Dominant is always a gentleman.  Being a Dominant has nothing in common with being domineering, in fact one is a contradiction of the other.  A Dominant does not posses an unbridled supremacy but posses only the power in which his submissive has granted to him.

A Dominant must always remember that submission is a gift.  To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back the gift it is no longer a gift.