I am sometimes amazed at the ignorance demonstrated by some.   In this case, it is from someone who was blocked by Me.  Recently, some months since I made that decision and took that action, I was messaged again by that person, new ID.   Before blocking the new ID, I made sure I was right on identifying the person and relayed to them they were not showing Me respect, but being self centered instead.  Their reply made it obvious they did not understand the concept of respect. If you are a sub, looking for a Dominant, please make sure you know the difference.

Well, my 'wheels' got replaced this week.  Hopefully a choice I will not end up regretting, cuz you never know.  :)   I am happy with it though, way nicer than my last car, although the same model, just newer with many, MANY less miles.

Feeling Grateful!  A few days ago I was in a major accident, hitting a deer while I as going 75mph down a highway.  I saw one deer cause another car to swerve and that deer made its way without incident, but I knew that meant there could be more.  Before I knew it, there was a deer immediately in front of me and there was nothing to do but allow the inevitable.  The sound was awful, the hood flew up and I got the car to the side of the road without further incident.  Not quite 48 hours has passed yet, and I am grateful no injuries have surfaced beyond very minor bruises.   The next day, I learned from the wrecker driver what normally results from similar crashes.  That choked me up and caused tears to start to flow.  Yes, my car, which was not going to last much longer anyway, is done, but I am fine.  I consider Myself lucky, blessed and My response is gratitude.   I know, not a 'site' topic, but I am sharing it anyway.  

Why I do NOT want My bags carried.   Those who know Me well, know I have gone on quite the health journey in the last 4 years.  I understand much more than I once did.  Due to this, I carry My own heavy cameras and camera bags, I will pick up purchases in the store that are heavy and not allow a male with Me to carry them for Me, and any attempt or offer to do so, is firmly rejected.   So, why do I do that?  It is simple, staying healthy means picking up heavy things, pushing the body.  Yes, I go to the gym and lift weights, use resistance machines, etc.  But, I absolutely embrace when LIFE brings the chances to do so, without special time set aside, etc.   Grins, I will admit when the male is being looked at by others, as though he is not doing his job, I find his discomfort and embarassment, quite entertaining.  One time, I was out photographing, with the same cameras you see on My profile, and another male chastised the male with Me, for not carrying My gear.  I laughed and made it VERY clear, he was not allowed to do so, as it did not suit My purposes.  Of course, it was MY decision!!  

My profile references an FLR but it ended early in 2021, so the search resumed once again.  As we all know, there are just not so many seeking so finding the one, or for some, the one(s), takes time and patience.  I think for Me, it is the challenge to find enough of the latter!