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LovingFLRforUs
Hetero Female Dominant, 57, SunsetSide, Michigan 
LovingFLRforUs

Seeking an FLR with someone where Connection and Control are both strong.  This is about a full faceted relationship, not one focused only on kink, etc.  Yet, that power exchange, needed by both parties, is well recognized, explored and boundries explored.  I tend to be attracted to intelligent males, alpha in the vanilla world, but who need and crave to give their submission in a relationship.

As far as more personal information and kink interests, I save that for conversation, not to advertise to the world here.

 

 

Why I do NOT want My bags carried.   Those who know Me well, know I have gone on quite the health journey in the last 4 years.  I understand much more than I once did.  Due to this, I carry My own heavy cameras and camera bags, I will pick up purchases in the store that are heavy and not allow a male with Me to carry them for Me, and any attempt or offer to do so, is firmly rejected.   So, why do I do that?  It is simple, staying healthy means picking up heavy things, pushing the body.  Yes, I go to the gym and lift weights, use resistance machines, etc.  But, I absolutely embrace when LIFE brings the chances to do so, without special time set aside, etc.   Grins, I will admit when the male is being looked at by others, as though he is not doing his job, I find his discomfort and embarassment, quite entertaining.  One time, I was out photographing, with the same cameras you see on My profile, and another male chastised the male with Me, for not carrying My gear.  I laughed and made it VERY clear, he was not allowed to do so, as it did not suit My purposes.  Of course, it was MY decision!!  

My profile references an FLR but it ended early in 2021, so the search resumed once again.  As we all know, there are just not so many seeking so finding the one, or for some, the one(s), takes time and patience.  I think for Me, it is the challenge to find enough of the latter!

As I watch the news of the many revelations to/of different male celebrities who have acted inappropriately toward women, with many of them claiming they didn't realize how their actions were perceived/felt by the women they gave their 'attentions' to.  It is obvious how many women have tolerated less than proper behavior, and did so for many varied reasons.For the submissive/slave males on here, let Me make some things clear.  For most Women, especially Dominant ones... when we want you to be sexual, show us your genitals, do specific acts of submission... we will tell you.  Your job is to politely show your willingness to submit.. and do so when told to do so.  Until then.. DO NOT DO IT.   

How hard should it be?  Nope, not talking about the male organ, I am talking about a relationship.  I had met someone in the last two years whose company I enjoyed.  We met on a D/s site so that understanding was present.  Yet we had our differences in needs and expectations.  So, despite being the Dominant where some believe in the 'bull in a china shop approach', I worked to find common ground/compromise where those needs were quite different.  It meant, I had to work to not be 'Me' in some ways.  Where I loved closeness and communication, I left more room for his personal space.  The relationship ended because the distance in needs/wants was just too great, and he decided he didn't wish to attempt to bridge the gap.  I was hurt and disappointed, but moved on.  Today, I am grateful it ended.  Instead of Me working so hard, I am with someone who makes it easy.  Its not because he is 'Mr. Super-sub', but simply because we are a better match.  Sure, there is work involved, but it is minor in comparison.  I get to be Me.. and that.. is easy!

I do love conversation, good quality, interesting, entertaining conversation!  Knowing that, if we are not actively engaged in such a conversation, and you write Me, have some good old fashioned composition in the message.  I strongly encourage a greeting, and a couple more sentences of what is on your mind, maybe be so polite as to 'introduce yourself' a bit, etc.  This is not a school English class, but keep some of those lessons in your mind a bit more.  I realize not everyone will write you back on here, when you do put in some effort, but your chances of Me writing you back then, are pretty damn good!

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