Hi. I'm a submissive guy hoping to find a dominant lady for symbiotic awesomeness.

I've grown a lot. I've learned a lot. I learned not only to accept myself as kinky, but to view it almost as a gift; it's like I get to enjoy a substantially wider spectrum of hot erotic stuff than the people who keep themselves shut up in little shame boxes.

I've also learned not to pre- the D/s in my desired relationships. How can I decide what's ideal for me when there are so many things, and so many dynamics, I've never even tried?

So here's me. I'm garrulous, outgoing and I love wordplay. I get super excited by power exchange and consensual inequality. I take well to the idea that a lady would have all the expected freedoms of a normal citizen and then some, and also the will and desire to impose rules and structure. 

I like (read 'am fulfilled by,' because sometimes it's boring and painful) domestic discipline-type stuff, both corporal and non-corporal. I like the idea of being a sex slave (who doesn't) and being used only barely consensually in various debaucherous ways. I like humiliation: submissive postures, uncomfortable nudity, being directed to serve or be 'in scene' around strangers or people I barely know; haven't had too much experience with other forms of humiliation, but I suspect there are quite a few I would take to as well.

I like (and I can prove this) no-strings service. The kind where your tasks actually get done, not where I pretend to screw up some little thing so you have to 'punish' me. Doing errands, cleaning, cooking, and other mundane tasks with no expectation on my part of any reward other than the chance to serve. Admittedly, it does help if you're demanding and bossy :)

So what do I hope to find? I dunno. I don't even know how hard I'm looking right now. It would be nice to cobble all this stuff into a dynamic that works for someone else as well, someone who revels in having power and control, and is selfish enough to take it when it's offered. I'm also looking for more friends, since, honestly, kinky people have been some of the coolest folks I've ever met.

I'm Artofthekneel. It's nice to meet you all.