Oddly, I find myself at a time where my life has a potential for great change, and possible excitement ahead, which is both daunting and inspiring. After some time alone its pleasing to think that there might be somebody to share that journey with me.

The basics are male, divorced, dom, few ties, not too many hangups, looking for a relationship rather than NSA fun. Commitment and care are what Im seeking and what I offer. Im not after play dates or casual stuff, fun though they may be, but of course Im not expecting roses round the door from the very first encounter. As you probably already figured out, Ive been around the block a time or two and I hope I know whats what, and Im no stranger to BDSM, and have over

In terms of kink, Im very into mental control, some bondage and restraint, pet play, Daddylg kind of relationships. Im not a huge sadist, though I enjoy using my tawses and floggers on willing skin, but if youre main kink is extreme masochism, were probably not a great match. Im more RACK than SSC, so if youre unsure of those terms either Google or you can ask me. I can be a bit edgy but I also believe that theres plenty of scope for affection and tenderness even in a Ds relationship and Im not afraid to express that.

I was very involved in the RL scene but Ive stepped back from it in recent years but Ive been feeling a desire to reingage with it, so Id hope that youre also into, or at the very least interested in, events such as the BBB and BDSM venues.

I tend to like women who are deeply submissive (or at least have the potential to become so) smart, fun, good communicators, and open about their sexuality and kinks. Age is very flexible - if we connect, we connect.

Thats a little about me. Youre welcome to throw a few questions at me if theres stuff I havent covered in it already and I hope you at least find it interesting enough to start a good conversation. If so, you know what to do.

Cheers for now!

Riff