I'm looking for someone to get close to and make a life together with. It takes honest communication and a willingness to share your real feelings and thoughts with someone. It doesn't matter if you're very experinced with this lifestyle or just exploring some of the thoughts you're having for the first time.  Sometimes different people can bring out different feelings in you and make you feel ways that you never did before.  Every relationship is different.  We should be looking to get to know each other as people and not spend all our time online searching for impersonal fetishes. Let's get to know each other and talk about how we can take our desires and realisticly live them out in the real world.  These experiences are just fleeting if we can't love all of each other beyond the bedroom. We all have emotional needs beyond just the physical ones.  Men and women are meant to be together.