... I am a creative, demisexual, dominant male, looking for a D/S bond on a respectful basis. Submission is a gift to me. Friendship is important to me as well as daily communication.
The mental part of BDSM, leading and guiding, bondage, spanking - more the pain increasing lust, the arousal feeling, edging, toys, lingerie, lust, orgasm control, rules and restriction.
I think I have the answer... most people are scamming, ghosting themselves so they think it is normal to play with emotions and act like a psychopath. People state things in their profile but don't even write back.
Lots changed since CollarMe, the mentality people, the values, egoism and rudenes. Walls up high and everybody is a scammer, wants your money ... where is the trust? Fear based on experiences?
Don't waste your time looking back, you're not going that way
