Why lie? Im comfortable with who I am. Im middle-aged. Im fat. Im balding. Im a redhead. If you are looking for a Greek god, we were never going to click anyway.

On the other hand, if you need a man who is used to being in charge and getting what he wants, but is, at his core, genuinely kind, caring, and attentive, might I recommend that you look past the surface?

In the same way, if you want somebody who has been paddling submissives since before the Marquis gave it a name, keep looking. Im not your guy.

I have spent the last decade or two at work knowing that people will do what I want them to do, and be happy doing it, because they know I always have their best interests at heart. Meanwhile, Ive only fantasized about that same level of trust and control in relationships and in the bedroom (or the public dressing room, or on the balcony, or...)

Now, Ive decided I want to explore what it would be like to turn some of these kinky fantasies into a reality...

So, youve heard what I dont have to offer. But, what I do have to offer is an exhilarating balance of sweet and stern, soft and hard, caring and demanding, cuddling and hair-pulling, dumb dad jokes and explicit language, attention and discretion. While Im not currently available for anything 247 or exclusive, I would welcome a lot more than a casual one-time play date.

If any of this catches your interest, lets talk and see where it leads...