Why lie? I'm comfortable with who I am. I'm middle-aged. I'm balding. I'm a freckled redhead. I've got loose skin from losing almost half my body weight in the last few years. If you are looking for a Greek god, we were never going to click anyway.

On the other hand, if you need a man who is used to being in charge and getting what he wants, but is, at his core, genuinely kind, caring, and attentive, might I recommend that you look past the surface?

In the same way, if you want somebody who has been paddling submissives since before the Marquis gave it a name, keep looking. I'm not your guy. 

I have spent most of my life at work knowing that people will do what I want them to do, and be happy doing it, because they know I always have their best interests at heart. I crave that same trust and respect and care in my relationships.

So, you've heard what I don't have to offer. But, what I do have to offer is an exhilarating balance of sweet and stern, soft and hard, caring and demanding, cuddling and hair-pulling, dumb dad jokes and explicit language, attention and space to do your own thing, doting and dominating, giving and taking.

If any of this catches your interest, let's talk and see where it leads...