7/11/2017 7:20:14 PM: Ladies please wise up. If he has time to play he has time to commit. I run across so many profiles about people claiming they want substance or other things but, are willing to play with anyone or other folks. You cannot want something but, not willing to sacrifice for it. Something worth having is worth sacrificing for so please stop complaining when you get garbage if all you do is hang around a dump.

6/27/2017 6:50:49 AM: Ok, I am both sad and ashamed that it has to be said. I am a sadistic man. However, that level of sadism is really dependent upon my sub/slave relationship. I can be as extreme or gentle as I need to be. Simply, because I enjoy the pain and she enjoys receiving it does not mean that she is subject to what i think her tolerance is nor to what mine is. Through thoughtful, open, and honest communication we can reach an understanding that may encourage her to safely expand her tolerance and desire. Also, just as important as inflicting the pain is THE AFTERCARE. I cannot stress this enough aftercare is just as much a part of the experience and enhances the bonding process. So, please anyone who reads this and is either a sadist or knows one please advocate for after care. Whats the use of having something valuable (sub/slave) if you are not going to take care of it.

6/25/2017 12:35:47 PM: I see a lot of profiles on here that tend to immediately list the things that they do not want or tolerate and it baffles me. Now, hard limits i can understand however, other things i think most should be a little flexible on. For, those that shun folks because of their age, distance, color, etc then go on to complain that most people are fakes you should really try opening your mind and embracing new things. It just may be someone out side the age range, color preference, or distance that you have secluded yourself into that may contribute most to your happiness. Just because you tried something once or twice with someone who did not deserve you does not mean it will always be that way. All that you will do in the end is end up frustrated and alone or settling for garbage when you are worth so much more.

6/18/2017 3:22:08 AM: Ladies hopefully I can educate you without offending you. Most (98%) of the doms on here are really little boys who abuse the lifestyle for their own selfish ends because they lack people skills to seduce the mind. I have been running across a lot of profiles with under consideration of so and so. This is just a ploy to get all of the benefits without the work. After, getting to know each other if a dom/domme still does not know if they want you just walk away. That way I do not have to run across the bitter sub/slave profile. A real dom will only value you as much as you value yourself.

6/9/2017 6:45:15 PM: Don't know why it still amazes me lol, I run across profiles that ask for people to be original and to write more than a hey or couple of word sentences. However, when you acknowledge and oblige their request they respond with a one word or couple word answer. This is confusing because just as you do not want them to contact you like that why reply that way? neither action propels communication and at the end of the day that is the foundation to knowing someone.