Collarspace

To be a Dominant is to be in control of ones own faculties and emotions.
My contention is that a sloth who watches tv on a couch all day and only barks orders is more a bully than a Dom. To dominate is to express purpose with goals and ambition.
If one cannot manage the direction of His own life, how can he oversee another?

Life has responsibilities that must be under control for one to find a clear path and be successful.
Therefore, finding myself driven, I must press on with gracefulness and considerations of others with the challenges I face day-to-day.
When it comes to sexuality, my pleasure very.
To the one I am with I would always be a loving Daddy type, caring, considerate, and kind in all aspects. Instructing and gently molding into a life blending of two lives.
My periodical sadistic desires are expressed with the redness of the ass cheeks and a very aggressive orgasmic pleasure.
Being said, I do not ever inflict extreme pain or damage, nor do I go beyond limits. (no punching, or cutting, no extreme torture, no scat, etc.)
Talking and asking questions as part of any session is one of my fetishes. I enjoy hearing the sub moan and answer me while under pleasure or pressure.
I will dish out as much as she can handle without crossing safety thresholds.
Sensuality is a big part of my life also. I love to be gently kissing and holding hands as we walk on the beach under the moon lit sky. Stealing a kiss as if a teen in love. I would often surprise you with an evening out to dinner. This could include and a fine bottle of wine with a special hotel reserved for us. Perhaps even flowers delivered to you as a reminder of how much you mean to me.
I am a romantic at heart!
My completion of a work project makes adrenaline rush which is an aphrodisiac to my core.
My arousal at this point generates strong desire to fuck as hard as I can and as often as possible.
I may fuck 3 times or more that day and in various ways combing sensuality as well as some sadistic pressures.
A typical day may be as follows I come home, put you right on your knees and fuck your mouth hard...then bend you over and fuck you hard...but not cum yet. Stop for a while...spanking you and touching your sexy ass and playing with your pussy (that sexy cunt belongs to me, but I treasure it!).
Then kissing you before I continue spanking you even harder.
Completing the pleasure by fucking your mouth till you taste my powerful energy. Then rest a bit, before I instruct you to prepare yourself to go out dressed for a fine restaurant. I romance you over candle lit dinner and wine. As we are driving, I romance you and kiss you at stop lights. The rest of the evening is romantic. But the next morning, I fuck hard again and love that ass red from my spanking hand...etc. Do you see yourself in this type of relationship?