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slavejim12010
Pan Male Submissive, 39, New York US 
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slavejim12010
Hello, i am a 38 year old male submissive currently looking to explore my submissive side with a Dominant Female or Male.
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7/29/2017 8:42:50 PM: For each item, you need to provide two answers:⦁ Yes, No or N/A – For each item to indicate if you have ever done the activity, not done the activity or if it does not apply to your gender.⦁ 0 – 5, or No – Next indicate how you feel about the activity using the rating scale provided below. A ‘No’ means that will not do the activity under any circumstances (a hard limit)0. Indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it (sometimes called a 'soft limit').1. Means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.2. Means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.3. Means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.4. Means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.5. Means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.NOTE: Place an asterisk (*) next to those items you are only willing to do with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.NOTE: The list is by no means 100% inclusive, so add any additional information which might be important for your Dom to know.WARNING: If you have any medical conditions that might limit your ability to play let your Dom know! Dom’s are not mind readers and if you don’t tell them about an existing condition, they won’t know. This places both of you in a dangerous situation, so be honest!There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.Activity Experience(Yes, No, or N/A) Willingness(0 – 5 or No)Abrasion -0Age play -2Anal sex -3Anal plugs (small) -4Anal plugs (large) -2Anal plug (public, under clothes) -4Animal roles -no 0Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 0Asphyxiation -0Auctioned for charity -4Bathroom use control -5Beastiality -no 0Beating (soft) -2Beating (hard) -0Blindfolds -5Being serviced (sexual) -2Being bitten -2Breast/chest bondage -3Breathe control -2Branding -0Boot worship -6 :)Bondage (light) -5Bondage (heavy) -4Bondage (multi-day) -1Bondage (public, under clothing) -5Breast whipping -4Brown showers (scat) 0Cages (locked inside of) -5Caning -5Catheterization -no 0Cells/Closets (locked inside of) -5Chastity belts -4Chauffeuring -5Choking -1Clothespins -3Cock worship -4Collars (worn in private) -5Collars (worn in public) -2Competitions (with other Subs) -3Corsets (wearing) -3Cross dressing -4Cuffs (leather) -5Cuffs (metal) -5Cutting -no 0Dilation -0Double penetration -naElectricity -0Enemas -3Enforced chastity -4Examinations (physical) -2Exercise (forced/required) -4Exhibitionism (friends) -4Exhibitionism (strangers) -4Eye contact restrictions -5Face slapping -4Fantasy abandonment -4Fantasy rape -0Fantasy gang-rape -0Fisting (anal) -2Fisting (vaginal) -naFollowing orders -5Foot worship -10 :)Forced dressing -3Forced homosexuality -3Forced masturbation -5Forced nudity (private) -5Forced nudity (around others) 2Forced servitude -5Full head hoods -4Gags (cloth) -3Gags (rubber) -3Gags (tape) -3Gates of Hell (male) -no 0Genital sex -2Given away to another Dom (temp) -5Given away to another Dom (perm) -1Golden showers -3Hairbrush spankings -4Hair pulling -naHand jobs (giving) -4Hand jobs (receiving) -3Harems (serving w/other subs) -0Harnessing (leather) -4Harnessing (rope) -4Having food chosen for you -5Having clothing chosen for you -5Head (giving fellatio) -5Head (receiving fellatio) -2High heel worship -12 :)Homage with tongue (non-sexual) -5Hot oils (on genitals) -3Hot waxing -5Housework (doing) -4Human puppy dog -1Humiliation (private) -5Humiliation (public) -4Hypnotism -1Ice cubes -1Infantilism -noInitiation rites -noInjections -noIntricate (Japanese) rope bondage -0Interrogations -0Kidnapping -3Kneeling -4Leather clothing -5Leather restraints -5Lectures for misbehavior -5Licking (non-sexual) -5Manacles & Irons -4Manicures (giving) -3Massage (giving) -4Massage (receiving) -1Medical scenes -0Modeling for erotic photos -0Mouth bits -0Mummification -3Nipple clamps -4Nipple weights -3Oral/anal play (rimming) -0Over-the-knee spanking -2Orgasm denial -4Orgasm control -5Outdoor scenes -5Outdoor sex -1Phone sex (serving Dom) -1Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) -0Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) -2Piercing (permanent) -3Prison scenes -0Pony slave -1Public exposure -noPussy/cock whipping -3Pussy worship -5Riding crops -4Riding the 'horse' (crotch tort.) -0Rituals -1Religious scenes -0Restrictive rules on behavior -5Rubber/latex clothing -5Rope body harness -4Saran wrapping -4Scratching - getting -1Scratching - giving -0Sensory deprivation -4Serving -5Serving as art -0Serving as ashtray -1Serving as furniture -3Serving as a maid -5Serving as toilet -1Serving as waitress/waiter -1Serving orally (sexual) -4Serving other doms (supervised) -4Serving other doms (unsupervised) -4Sexual deprivation (short term) -5Sexual deprivation (long term) -1Shaving (body hair) -5Shaving (head hair) -5Sleep deprivation -noSleepsacks -3Slutty clothing (private) -5Slutty clothing (public) -1Spanking -5Spandex clothing -4Speech restrictions (when, what) -5Speculums (Anal) -0Speculums (vaginal) -naSpreader bars -4Standing in corner -5Stocks -4Straight jackets -4Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) -2Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) -5Strap-on-dildos (wearing) -0Strapping (full body beating) -3Suspension (upright) -0Suspension (inverted) -0Suspension (horizontal) -0Supplying new partners for Dom -0Swallowing semen -1Swallowing urine -1Swapping (with one other couple) -1Swinging (multiple couples) -0Tattooing -noTeasing -0Tickling -1Triple penetration -naUniforms -2Including others -2Vaginal dildo -naVerbal humiliation -6Vibrator on genitals -2Voyeurism (watching others) -4Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) -4Video (watching others) -4Video (recordings of you) -4Water torture -1Wearing symbolic jewelry -0Whipping -4Wooden paddles -5

5/14/2017 4:40:24 PM: A true submissive gives the power to his or her Domme to destroy them.....then trusts his or her Domme NOT too.

5/9/2017 7:03:10 PM: Have it email or message Master at fixed times each day e.g. 6am, 8am, 10am, 12am, 3pm, 6pm, 9pm, midnight - so it is forced to focus on YouHave it kneel for master naked on webcam (or anything else You want on webcam) or send pics naked to MasterHave it create an account on Recon, craigslist etc and give You the password so You can arrange for it to serve other Men local to itHave it buy a chastity cage and then send it  a padlock to lock it on (and don’t send it the key).  Have it send a picture of itself in chastity each dayHave it install teamviewer on its PC and then you can install Net Nanny etc to control its access and/or monitor what it doesHave it place a webcam in its room that it always on and always availble for you to access to see what it is up to and to controle slave is naked all the timeMake it live on fixed amount of money each week either by having it show you its bank account or more extreme paying its earnings (or transferring) into an account you control and you only transfer back a fixed amount each week.  The residual could go to You or for savings for the slave maybe less a weekly tax. Master let me have 25€ a week which is lowHave it create a facebook account that You access and have it check in whenever it is so you can track it.  And, you can instruct it to be at a certain place (or places) at a certain time (or times) and check in so You can control its movementsCreate a daily routine for it to follow each day - kneel each morning, exercise, walk to work, kneel at home, recite a creed, go to bed at 9pm etc for me it is waking time 5am, facing the wall till 5:30 then cold shower, then exercices (at least 1 hour) then breakfast in a bowl on the floor, then dressing up to leave the houseHave it write a slave diary to send to you each day, week or month. I have to do one really detailedGive in instructions to respond to any text message You send it within a set time (10 mins,) and then send it massages af random times of dayHave it create a character on Second Life or an multi-player game of any kind and control it from there serving You in the gameUse a service like writeforme.org to have to complete lines/writing tasks for You and/or others i have to do at least one wfm taskMake it keep a blog e.g. on tumblr and create a certain amount of new content every day or weekInstruct it to find 3 Men locally to serve who it will then ask to report to You on its performanceHave it create a maintain a profile of a website like Recon for You for it to find slaves/faggots local to You o serve YouHave it wirte a 1000, 2000 or 5000 word essay on different aspects of service each week and post it to a blog site for others to read and critiqueMake it save a certain amount each week and transfer to an account You own to pay for You to come and use it in person (or it to come to You)Have it donate all its clothes to a charity shop and throw away all its underwear. Then have it buy second hand one (or two) of everything and this is all it can wearHave it cancel any subions to satellite TV, net flicks, Amazon etc as these are not meant for slaves.

5/9/2017 6:38:39 PM: 1. What is Teamviewer?Teamviewer is a program that you can download on to your Mac or PC that allows another user (me) to remotely control your desktop.2. What is teamviewer lockdown?Teamviewer lockdown is where I take control of your computer. Typically this begins with me setting my own custom password on Teamviewer so I can log onto your machine whenever I want to. Then I go about taking admin permissions and creating my own profile on your machine. I install all kinds of software on your machine including keyloggers, screenshot captures, and a variety of other spyware that will allow me to keep tabs on you and what you are doing at all times. For many slaves I set parental controls so they can not use certain applications or visit certain websites without my express personal permission :)Sometimes I will use Teamviewer functions like blackscreen so you can not see exactly what I'm doing or what I'm installing. Other times I will disable remote input meaning you will not be able to control your computer at all while I am accessing it.3. What does it entail?When I take Teamviewer control your computer becomes mine to control. I can log into your accounts, collect personal information like photographs, logins, social media information, and any other information I may want to use for CONSENSUALfantasy blackmail play. I will lock down your computer and filter your websites so you can only access what I desire you to access. Each teamviewer session is a MINIMUM $50 tribute for my time and attention. After lockdown you will be extorted more and more for whatever permissions you may want including things like answering your emails, watching porn, or visiting your favorite social media sites.Sometimes Teamviewer sessions can include humiliation, degradation, chastity, consensual fantasy blackmail, cam-to-cam, ignore cam, or a variety of other arrangements depending on your deep dark fantasies. If you ask for TEAMVIEWER LOCKDOWN you will get exactly what I describe above. No more no less. If you specifically want humiliation, blackmail, DURING teamviewer sessions you need to ask.4. How do you block my programs?I use standard parental control software, web filtering software, built in software that is part of your OS (Micosoft, etc.). I reserve the right to NOT tell you all the of the tools I use so that you can't disobey me.5. Is this permanent and ongoing slavery?The point of lockdown is that you no longer have control over your machine. If you want a SINGLE session of teamviewer abuse that is fine, however I much prefer to drain slaves on an ongoing basis. I have had some teamviewer slaves enjoy my attention for over a year while I kept them in lockdown.6. How do I get unlocked?If you no longer want my ongoing attentions or you want me to remove you from lockdown entirely the buy-out is $200.00 payable via PAYPAL, Amazon Gift Card, or Gift Rocket. This buy out is to secure your freedom as well as for me to remove any software I've installed and restore admin permissions.7. What if I decide not to pay you at all?Then your computer is most likely fucked. I've had slaves who did not obey tell me that it cost them anywhere from $100- $300 to get their computers unlocked by professionals, and even then there were things they couldn't access or use :)

5/7/2017 10:29:46 AM: Test How Far You Dare Take Female Domination?1. What would you prefer his status to you to be?Submissive(1) Slave(2) Property(3)2. You agree with chastity and controlling his penis?No (1)Always (2) Love the idea (3)3. You think a male should not have the right to set limits on anything you choose.No (1)  Not after a contract is signed (2) Yes(3)4. You love and care for your male  but you crave to humiliate him, hurthim and enjoy making him suffer whilst he worships you.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)5.You lack the confidence or motivation to carry out your desires:Never(1) Yes(2) Sometimes (3)6. If sometimes your males reaction to a command was sullen or impertinentand not humble and servile. This would anger you.No (1) Sometimes(2)Yes(3)7. You would like to see your males body striped with whip marks or  canes and would enjoy inflicting pain which is:Mild (1) Severe (2) Sadistic(3)8. Keeping your male as a human pet (Dog or Horse) with no human speech rights and living in a caged environment appeals.No(1) Yes(2) Love the idea(3)9. Being sexually pleasured by your male whilst him being denied all forms of sexual pleasure is a power rush and an extremely appealing scenario.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)10. You think the male should have no money of his own and you shouldcontrol all finances.No (1) Sometimes (2) Always(3)11 If he cries out when you cane him or whip him you feel sorry for him or you want to give him more.Feel sorry (1) Give him more (2) Keep on until he learns to shut up (3)12. You sometimes feel inhibited in carrying out your true desires with your male due to concern over an adverse reaction on his part so you keep it bottled up inside and this  spoils things for you.Yes(1) No (2) Sometimes(3)13.You love the idea of living this lifestyle 24/7 but outside elements and reallife get in the way, this:Isn’t even an issue(1) Sometimes is an issue(2)This is a huge issue(3)14. The slave/Sub/Property you want is a human being with feelings , for you to be in  true control can you push those feelings to  one side and go with your desires.No (1) I’m willing to try (2) Love the idea (3)15. Your sexual pleasure provided by the male is increased if, at the same time,he is suffering discomfort  pain or humiliation as a result of your actions.No (1) Sometimes (2)Love the idea(3)16. You never want back chat or disrespect from your male again and likethe idea of stamping it out completely.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)17. Being served by a male both sexually and domestically , with you forcing him to serve you this way knowing he does now wish to and is hating it, makes the experience more erotic and pleasurable.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)18. You want to have your male  beg your permission to do things and fearthe consequences of not begging.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)19. Owning a male who through your cold harsh training regime has been left with no choice but to serve and obey you would be an adrenaline rush for you and would increase your pleasure.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)20. You would be more sexually excited if you ordered your slave topleasure you immediately following punishment than at some other time.No (1) Yes (2) Love the idea(3)21. Should your slave share your bed or forever sleep caged or chained at night.No(1) Sometimes(2) Yes(3)Total score…………………………………..Your score will be between 21 and 63.If you have scored 34 or under you should seriously consider just a part time bedroom kink or certainly further soul searching on what you want out of female dominance.If you have scored  35 - 48 then you have it in you to be a truly dominant force you really should introduce some form of compulsion and turn him into a non consensual slave under role play conditions. The benefits to you in normal routine out of role will then be manifold and great.If you have scored  49 - 63 you are a female dominant superior in every way just waiting to control your slave, bite the bullet and live your dreams, true sadist in role play and invisibly in control outside of it. Role play will never be enough for you and eventually you will need a true masochistic slave, a normal relationship will never work for you without a very compatible male or one who can be shaped

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