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About Me

I am Todd and I am a 46 year old IT guynerdgeek, whatever term you prefer. I have heard them all and take offense to none. I am a father, son, uncle, nephew, brother, and a damn good friend if I feel valued in the friendship.

Im a Taurus, with pretty much everything it implies, but I vacillate on whether I feel it means anything or not. I believe there is a power greater than ourselves but follow no holy book or organized religion. I look at the sky and Earth with equal wonder and curiosity. I am a man of science despite my superstitions because I believe firmly in the adage that todays magic is tomorrows science.

While fixing computers pays the bills it is not my true passion or calling. I am a writer. I am an author. The two terms are not interchangeable. Writers write, authors publish. I have published a collection of 13 horror and speculative fiction stories but have a couple of handfuls of novels at various stages of production. If you show interest Im more than happy to talk about all of my writing.

Kinky Me

I am dominant but not sadistic unless that is needed or desired. I try to read my partner and mesh our personal desires together into a singularly enjoyable experience for both. I will treat you with respect and use only nice, sweet pet names unless your desire is to be degraded, vilified, and humiliated. Then that is what you will get.

I dominate with nurturing and care for the most part but will lay down the law and punish as necessary for training. Think of me as a very harsh and strict Daddy-type who definitely believes in the belt. And flogger and paddle and ...

I prefer mental domination and submissive women with strong personalities. You will not serve out of fear but out of respect and compulsion and, yes, at some point, hopefully love. This is why I believe true submission takes time.

In short, for the most part, I get pleasure from giving pleasure. If it excites you it excites me. There are limits to what I will try but I prefer to leave that between me and potential partners.

I do prefer younger women from 18-35 or so but will never dismiss out of hand a woman outside of that window. You never know what you might miss out on by refusing to try based on something arbitrary like number of years spent on Earth.

If I sound or look like someone you might want to get to know, either as a friend or more, please feel free to add andor message me. I will respond to all messages. Promise.