3/16/2018 3:45:35 PM: WHY ? why do MEN add themselves to your 'Admirers' list without having the guts to talk to you ?even though they know, KNOW FOR CERTAIN you say 'NO MEN'?what makes them think you will be flattered by some hairy moron who hasnt the guts OR the respect think that they are soooooo special ?testes do not make you specialignorance is not attractivecowardice is not sexyget a grip, stop, STOP,,, what you are doing is not BDSM, it's ABUSEgrow the fk up you sad sacks of tiny willies and no brains, GO AWAY!and BTW, asking 'does no men mean me too?'that just shows you have NO classo idea and no bloomin idea you idiot:O

2/16/2018 4:44:49 AM: It is becoming more and more difficult to tell who is whom on CS. I have been approached by alledged Lesbian Dominants who then turned submissive. By alledged Lesbian Dominants who then turned into raving idiots, and also by some who turned out to be fat old men stealing pictures.I know life, for some, is not meant to be easy. But THIS life is meant to be built on TRUST and RESPECT. They are the true corner stones and foundations on which BDSM is built. Along with SAFE SANE and CONSENSUAL, these build the reality that stops BDSM being not only totally illegal, but all out abuse and bullying.I do my due dilligence, not only to protect ME, but to protect OTHERS as well. If you turn out to be a slavering lunatic, a grumpy old man who cant get a woman without a network of lies, or so sad you need 12 accounts to convince people you 'might' be real, but still use stolen piccies, then please, leave me alone, I WILL find out, and I will NOT sit in a corner mewling like a kitten.If you are real, and can show me that You understand the concepts and ideas that I am talking about, then come on down, the price is right!!!!And to those moronic men who see 'no men' and think e-mailing will change my mind, take your tiny little winkie back to your wife, and ask her to play with it,,, all i will do it put it in a meatgrinder :)

12/28/2017 4:55:57 PM: I have edited this article slightly, and added a small message from a song on the end. If it helps anyone understand themselves, then credit the author, I am just a vessel on this one. IF it tells the right person the right thing, then maybe just maybe rather than reading, we should be talking.Enjoy “The default state of an alpha generally tends to be somewhere closer to the leadership end of the scale. But that doesn’t mean that they are a Domme in denial, they really do want to submit to the right person. Alphas don’t think they’re above other types of submissive and are certainly not saying “hey look at me I’m better than you”. Everyone is equal, a submissive is a submissive regardless of the ‘type’ of submissive they identify as. I’ve seen comments such as “well if you’re an alpha sub, does that make me a beta sub?” NO! IT DOESN’T! Just remember the term ‘alpha’ is a personality and not a role. Maybe you have an alpha personality and there doesn’t apply to you, fair enough, but it does apply to the majority of alpha types that I’ve interacted with. If you ever meet an alpha, you could be forgiven for assuming that you’ve met a Domme. You’d even be forgiven for making the mistaken assumption that you’re talking to a complete man-eating bitch that’s willing to walk all over everyone and everything to get what she wants. And to an extent you’d be right because an alpha usually knows exactly what she is, what she wants, what she needs and has a fair idea about how she’s going to get it, even if she’s new to the lifestyle. But there doesn’t mean she’s not respectful because she is. And it certainly doesn’t mean she’ll use her ‘personality’ as an excuse for being rude, bratty or ignore protocols within the lifestyle. A newbie might make mistakes, but that’s true of anyone who’s new and learning, no matter what role you’re in so allowances should be made for there she will often come across as very direct and will leave you in no doubt about her intentions. she’s confident, commands respect, has high standards and is usually very proud of her accomplishments. An alpha wants to be owned, taken even, but only by the right Domme, one that knows exactly how to handle her, how to push her buttons and how to control her she’ll test you to your limits, and she’ll do it quickly. she’ll ask the same question in a number of different ways, questions that you might not be comfortable answering, she might even make you feel like you’re in an interview at times, because she doesn’t want to waste any time.she wants to see any signs that the Domme she’s talking to isn’t for her early on. And if she feels that you don’t have what it takes to really give her what she needs, she’ll walk away. Unfortunately, there can often result in her being seen as a fake or playing games. But there is far from the truth, if you’re not the right Domme for her, then it’s better for both of you that you find out sooner rather than later. An alpha isn’t a Domme, far from it in fact. she wants to surrender to her Domme, she wants to be treated like the property of her Domme to be used for her pleasure, just like any submissive. That doesn’t mean that she’ll allow herself to be abused, she is no push over, she knows a true heart and will only allow herself to be controlled by someone who’s shown that they really deserve her submission. In return, the Domme gets a loyal, devoted submissive who’s right for them and wants nothing more than to please her Domme. But if she thinks you’re just ‘playing at being a Dom’ she will chew you up and spit you out so fast that you won’t know what hit you. An alpha wants and needs attention, maybe not constantly, but you must challenge her intellectually and discipline her if she steps out of line. Don’t ask her, TELL her what you want. If you show any sign of weakness, she’ll take control, and that’s no fun for an alpha because they really don’t want to be in control, REALLY, THEY DON’T! she needs you to be assertive (but not aggressive) and impose your will. she wants to be tamed, she needs you to make her WANT to let go and submit whilst at the same time she wants the loving, nurturing companionship found in any other D/s relationship. An alpha is often (but not always) in a dominant position in their vanilla life. It could be they have a senior position at work for example. That doesn’t mean that every submissive in a good job is an alpha, and there is a generalisation, but you will usually find that an alpha has some form of responsibility and as a result, they can find it hard to ‘switch off’. That is why it takes a very strong Domme to make her her captive. The problem for the alpha female is that most men are brought up to be gentle and respectful towards women and when they come across a strong woman, they often over compensate on the nice, polite, softly softly approach. That is the complete opposite of what the alpha needs. she wants to be manhandled, she wants to be “taken”, she wants to be overpowered. she wants her woman to ‘be THE woman! An alpha will fiercely protect her Domme and her ‘property’, including any others within the dynamic, like they’re her own. There's nothing wrong with that and it’s good for the Domme too as she knows her property is under the watchful eye of someone that will stand up for what’s right. She also knows that her submissive is more than capable of looking after herself should the need arise. In fact, the alpha will need her Domme to trust her to do so, safe in the knowledge that she can call on her help if it’s needed. All submissives have their ideas of what they look for in a Domme and that Domme must continue to display those qualities and give their submissive what they need. It can be hard for any submissive to find the right Domme because they know (or at least should know) exactly what they’re worth, they should hold out for “the one” and in the end their patience will pay off because by waiting for the right partner, who’s worthy of their submission the rewards for the submissive are just as intense as the rewards for the Domme. But it can be even more difficult for an alpha because they have such a strong personality and there can lead to the alpha feeling that they will never find “the one”. The rewards of being involved with an alpha are immense. If you can break through that tough outer shell and break down the walls you will find a fascinating, intelligent, sensual, loving, passionate and loyal submissive that will be everything you ever dreamed of and much more besides. Because alphas, and the Dommes they’re attracted to, are usually highly intelligent, some fascinating debates and banter can take place with each literally ‘bouncing’ off the other and thus adding to the sexual chemistry within the dynamic. Especially if she wins in the battle of wills but she turns it against her in a battle in the bedroom. But the same can be said of any Domme/submissive relationship. In fact what I’ve described as an alpha could be used to describe pretty much any ‘type’ of submissive, because as I said at the beginning, the term ‘alpha’ relates to the personality type, not the role. If you’re with the right Domme, the chemistry, the trust, the companionship and the sense of belonging together are second to none. Once you’re deemed to be ‘the one’ and you get that submission that your submissive is so desperate to give, then your relationship will go from strength to strength, like an unstoppable tsunami. So perhaps we should dispense with labels altogether and just say that the right submissive with the right Domme are the ultimate match made in heaven”  2016 Arch Angel Say it once, tell me twiceAre you certain I’m alright?Just a sign, to remind meThat tomorrow’s worth the fightEver changing the storyline that keeps me alive So make a wish, and say… Give me life, give me loveScarlet angel from aboveNot so low, not so highKeep it perfectly disguised Every changing the storyline that keeps me aliveMy Mona Lisa’s making me smileRight before my eyes! Show me faith, like you doI’m amazed at how you moveSide to side, front to backYou know how to make it last Take another lookTake a look aroundIt’s you and meIt’s here and nowAs you sparkle in the skyI’ll catch you while I canCause all we are is all I am I just want you to seeWhat I’ve always believedYou are…The miracle in me

12/28/2017 4:44:35 PM: to PrimalSrthe old man with all the insults but who cannot spell woman (yes,,,, it has an 'a' in it)or spell 'smell' <<<< look two L'syour tiny winkie does not conquer anythingdomination does not come from your pee soaked trousers, domination comes from BEING dominantstop hurling insults little boythat or learn to spellyou remind me of the child at the back of the class, left there because they fell for Hitlers rhetoricjust because someone told you 'and man shall rule the earth' does not mean YOU donor, little one, are you of the mental level to engage me in a debate of any kind,,, i have the IQ to spare to give you an arguement,, you however, based on the mail you sent mecannot afford the IQ to wipe your ass without help !!

12/27/2017 6:28:14 AM: to every man who has his tiny winkie in his hand, thinking with his tissues and sending mails to lesbianswe dont careyou are not special and you are not the species we wantyou say you read profiles, but to miss the fact we dont want you, that we say no men,,, you ignore totallyyou show no respect when you ignore the words we sayyou show no thought and no respect when you ignore our wishesall you show is your ignorance, and the fact you wouldnt listen even if we were looking for a guyyou wonder why women on here get defensive ? it is because you do not show any respect and yet demand you get respect, because you have a winkiemy cat had a winkie, he died, i loved him,,,, why ? because EVEN MY CAT SHOWED RESPECT,,,, why not try it sometime ???dead cat 1,,,, ignorant men 0