A few years ago I had a conversation with someone on line that changed my life!   A few hours into that conversation and I realized that I'd discovered something that I'd been desiring for quite some time and just didn't know it. .

I've made some phenomenal friends in this lifestyle and I will admit I've made a couple of blunders, but all in all I know I am where I was meant to be.

The term switch is so accurate for me.   It is literally like turning a light switch on and off.   I love my role as a Ma'am or Mommy, but I also crave the freedom that comes with submission.  I do not switch with the same person, each role is separate, because it becomes confusing for both people.

I was taught to love all kinds of play,  both giving and receiving.

I am very social, so I am always open to new friends.

Decevenings