I don’t think I’m going to find it on Match.Com. 

And what is it that I want? 

I want it all.  I want that connection where you can't tell if it is lust or love, but that doesn't matter because it is so good.  The quirky, witty, smart, cute woman who turns heads when she walks into the room.  I want to find someone whose company I genuinely enjoy – and I want them to want me.  I want that fun partner in crime, even if the crime is only loitering.  Or occasionally not recycling because it is raining.  I want someone who is optimistic, has passion for something and is not afraid of an adventure.  And someone who knows they are in trouble when I give them that look from across the room.

But that’s not all I want...

I want a woman with that inner submissive slut that is just below the surface.  Someone who puts in the little extra effort – dresses/costumes/outfits/what I left out for her as she knows it makes me hard.  Someone who looks so innocent when we are out in public, but really enjoys that we have that little secret.  One who knows and appreciates the mental aspects of that slap across her face or those bruises that were left behind on her body.  How sometimes I just need to take her mouth or her pussy just as I please, where ever I please (I’m not an exhibitionist, but I like adventure).  One who likes being called slut, whore, and/or whatever name is fitting in the moment.  I want to look in her eyes as my hand squeezes her neck, just to see the need.  I want to do it in front of the mirror so she can see it too.  I want to gag her mouth, just to see how she reacts to having that basic human right away.  One who gets wet at the thought of being grabbed by the hair and pushed against the wall.  I want someone to inspire me to think up/google research interesting uncomfortable predicaments to put them in – just because.  I want someone who finds being powerlessness freeing in her own way.  I want her to find pleasure in my pleasure, and of course me finding pleasure in her pleasure - that symbiotic relationship that keeps us both lusting.  Then I want us to sit on the couch, throw on a movie and get sushi take out.

I understand this takes time, a connection and lots of trust.  From both of us.  And that you may prefer Thai food over sushi. 

Other tidbits.  Straight, athletic build, shorter hair, blue eyes, down-to-earth, witty, fun/funny, caring, romantic in my own way, good on the bbq, seen too many movies/TV, love learning, working on the house, estate state finds, too strong of a worth ethic, appreciates good architecture/engineering/design, divorced, every other weekend dad, hard worker, successful career, family oriented, etc. etc. etc.

Any questions just ask.  I have pics to trade and always enjoy getting a coffee to see if that connection is there.