I dont drink, smoke, use drugs. I am healthy, drama free, and serious.  I was born in 1970.  Do math from there not my profile dates.  I own a lot of leather and steel bondage gear and many toys of all types.  I'm the daddy dom type looking for a girl who wants to yield control and life decisions to her man who she can look up to and rely on to make the right decisions for her.

Heavy on mental and emotional domination, bondage, toys, very light on the physical sadism. No knives, fire, kids, animals, scat, 911 ambulance calls, etc.  Spanking is sexy fun. Beatings and heavy bruising is not.

Well educated professional, fit, no time for time wasters.  I want to meet you for real, in person, after getting to know you online.  You must be willing to video verify or you go into the catfish bin and get blocked.  Everyone has a phone with a camera these days. No excuses especially given the huge number of fakes on CS.  I will never ask an uncommitted sub to send XXX pics or per online.  I will never send you dick pics or other low class Tinder quality nonsense.

I am a dominant gentleman.  You are a submissive girl who needs a dominant gentleman to take care of you.

I don't care if you are rich or poor, professional, student, artist, unemployed, or anything else as long as you are fully available.  If you are married, have kids, have bf, are taking care of your sick aunt every day, or have other dependents and distractions we are not a good match.  Pets are ok.  If you are already in a poly situation then it depends on the details.  I am very left brain but have a thing for the right brain artsy girls.  Tasteful well done tattoos are ok.  Most piercings are ok.

Communications are critical in this world so say hi if I am what you want.  Artificial theatrics where the sub is not allowed to speak until spoken to are uninteresting.  Your brain is the sexiest part you have; silencing you is a turn off.