Words that I try live by are: 

The darkest moments of our lives are not to be buried and forgotten, rather they are a memory to be called upon for inspiration to remind us of the unrelenting human spirit and our capacity to overcome the intolerable. 

Conversation where getting to know an individual through another individual via polite and meaningful discourse is preferrable. 

Disclaimer: I am a married man. I offer this ination as I believe in respect and to offer full disclosure. 

It is my wish to find a submissive serviel sapiosexual sultry soul that is not only open minded but has the imagination to explore, express, enhance and embrace who and what their true nature needs. Nurtured by me of course!