I am a dominant man from the Netherlands, who is quiet and introverted.
Don't confuse quiet and introverted with nice and soft, you will learn the hard way.

I discovered I had a piss fetish when I was 15 and started exploring.
Did vanilla piss play, which was nice. But I wanted to take it further.
Tried it in a submissive way and quickly discovered that it was not my thing, but was very intrigued with the control of the dominant side.

That's when I discovered that I want to take control.
I switched to the dominant side, took control and loved it.
Not just the piss play, but the total aspect of dominant play.

After a couple of years of learning, making mistakes, experimenting and playing, I discovered that the control is what excites me.
When I'm in control, it makes me enjoy a broad aspect of activities and brings certain hidden trades of me to the surface.

I enjoy it, because I control it. It brings out the control freak that I am.
The basis is the control, the thing that will happen depends on my mood, fantasy and creativity.