Lol just got called a fake and told to fuck off because I answered the question 'what's the meanest thing you've thought of doing to a guy that's tied up?' by saying 'untying them and walking away.' Damn, I thought it was a pretty good answer, I mean what's more mean than denying someone what they want? I guess he got his panties in a twist cause I didn't play the way he wanted. I mean hell, at least say hi and introduce yourself before asking to play. Lol

If I have one more supposed 'submissive' write me reprimanding me for not responding to them in the time they expect I will explode!! I receive a lot of messages so I may not be able to respond to them all at the time I am online. Yes, I will read them but I don't always have time to respond either because something comes up or whatever device I'm using is dieing or whatnot but eventually I will respond. Don't freaking get on my case because I don't immediately respond. If it's been over a few days then I either lost your message in pages back of my mailbox or I just really didn't care for it. If you're wondering why I didn't respond sending a pissy message is going to piss me off. Here's a thought, how about a message saying something like 'hey just wanted to say hi again. I hope all is well'. Then I'll be like oops I forgot to write them back but I won't be pissed. Ugh! Rant over. (I don't have a laptop or computer, only a tablet and phone. My tablet dies unless it is plugged in which makes it awkward to use. My cell phone for some reason won't show all of a message on the screen that I'm reading or writing so I have to do a lot of sideways scrolling back and forth which totally sucks. So that being said, it takes a bit to read and respond to messages.)

An opening message should include at least one question directed towards the recipient, not just one long message about what you are looking for and all about you. Conversation, be it online or in person, should be a back and forth kind of thing not a one way thing. You ask a question, the person replies and asks a question back, its called getting to know someone. Do you sit down and just start talking all about yourself when you meet someone IRL?

I have noticed there are a lot of people that send the same cut and paste message over and over again. I will get a message that I will ignore and they will send the same thing again in a month, over and over again, monthly. Or I Will reply to them and one of two things will happen: 1) they don't reply but then a month later I get the same cut and paste message 2) they reply back but stop after a few messages then I get the same cut and paste message a month later I've even had long draw out conversations with some only to have them or me stop talking, then get that same damn first message a month later. Its like they've forgotten whole conversations. I mean I can look and see where they have messaged me before, so why can't they. Its so fucking irritating. Someone please explain this phenomenon to me. All my messages are unique, so this really smacks of not giving two shits about actually getting to know someone (yes, I know having a cut and paste opening message is easier but I can usually tell when I get one and usually don't reply to them because I enjoy a little effort)(also getting the same one over and over is just doubly shitty)