Things i wounder, Are there any real people left on here ? is Fetlife the place to really connect?  AFF and collace seem full of Wanna be's and people looking for KINK of every sortf  ( not a bad thing ) Just real folks seem hard to find. Read plenty of profiles every week, I find more and more that people are full of doodooo ! I read im a submissive im a slave.. But dont say this to me or i dont do this or ill block you if you say this or are a republican lol . I have been in this lifestyle for over 30 years and it sure has changed ! Maybe I should just go back to normal life. This lifestyle has gone to a new low level and people who post are 80% nieve and dont know what a slave or submissive is ! They know KINK for sure but not how to act or speak as they claim they are !  KINK is about sex and fettishes lifestyle is much more then that ! if your a KINKSTER great !  but please dont caim to me a Slave of Submissive lol say what you want and dont . Politics , Religon much like in bars has no place here ! Just be happy ! 

2021, Finally Collarspace has put jurnals back ! congrats its been many years on and off this sight ! CM to CS been here for the whole thing! This sight has changed much... Now its more Fet people then lifestyle people! Many Fakers and Many scammers,but its still at time a great way to meet like minded people! Flaws...yes i have a few and good i have plenty. Looking for that one connection ( like a lot of us ! ) Now located in Myrtle BeachSC and i have found ZERO here and those ive spoke to are very much Kinksters not lifestyers .. othing wrong with that just say it dont pretend. If your local email me and lets talk ! Women, couples !

*** Before reading please take note**** Do not send me a message asking me for something that you want, then after I ask questions to confirm you are real you stop messaging, Please save us both time. Just beacuse you say you want me to do something while you partner watches or wants to be cockhould Then when I ask specific you give bland answers not my first rodeo ! I am open and willing I just hate wasted time ! It makes me remember about this site read and Listen but believe only 10% of what is said ! These day there are no real sites , the best at 40% real not a great avg. Still now and then someone catches my attention and I hope for the best ! Lets just say 2016 not a great start ! lol