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Im looking for a submissive woman for a longterm relationship. I am not here to play games and am very serious about finding someone. I would consider a switch given the right circumstances.

While I can be extremely focused and driven, Im probably one of the kinder, more caring people you will meet. Most of my recent work has centered on helping others. Recently, I worked extensively in remote communities, helping people improve their lives and trying to afford them opportunities they might not otherwise have.

For most of the last 12 years, I have worked as a Captain on luxury yachts, and have travelled all over the world. I am now looking for someone to settle down with...or possibly keep exploring given the right circumstances. Ideally, they should be submissive as I enjoy a Ds element to the relationships I m involved in.

I am most interested in the power exchange of Ds relationships. That power manifests itself in many ways Bondage (restraints, gags, hoods, blindfolds, collars, cuffs, etc ), pain (whips, canes, crops, electro, nipple torture, wax, etc ), and various RulesProtocols. All of these help heighten that sense of control and power between a dominant and their submissiveslave. Whether that power manifests itself occasionally during play with a Submissive type or on a more continuous 247 level with a Slave, will largely depend on the dynamics of our relationship. Ideally, I m looking for something towards the latter.

There is no doubt a large sexual component to Ds relationships. I enjoy seeing a naked subslave bound, collared, cuffed, and gagged at my feet, completely at my mercy controlling their pleasure and pain. That sexual component reinforces the exchange of power being completely exposed at someone s mercy is a very powerful feeling. I enjoy that level of control and power over someone.

As for other things

I ve often found that it s the little things that make life interesting, not necessarily the good things. I rarely take things too seriously and always try to have a great time at whatever I m doing. I ve often found that it s better to make light of difficult situations rather than dwell on the negatives. I can be incredibly focused, driven, and independent, but I m probably one of the more laid back, caee people you ll meet.

Ideally, Im looking for someone that has a similar outlook on life doesnt take things too seriously goal orientated yet understands that its often the little things that make life interesting and worth living that can laugh when things dont always go according to plan and can find humor in unlikely places. Similar interests, intelligent, and someone who loves to travel wouldnt hurt either.

I love spending time in the outdoors, running, skiing, sailing, hiking, and enjoy playing the piano during the rare periods I can get my hands on one. Im well educated, have a great job that takes me all over the world, and love to listen to live music whether its at a jazz club, a concert, or just listening to a local band play in a bar. I absolutely love to travel and have lived abroad for most of the last 12 years.

I also love animals, particularly penguins, and have always wanted to have one as a pet .but Im afraid that will probably never happen. (