I:
A white male living in China, not using my skin color to get by like most of the people I see here, but rather traveling and working professionally. A voracious reader and (aspirationally, at least) a polymath: someone who knows a few languages and wants more, and someone with very catholic intellectual tastes. Someone who likes to control himself and everything he sees below himself. An abundant and inveterate traveler. A former U.S. Marine, if that speaks to my character or explains away the occasional dourness of my face. Nevertheless, something of a libertine and a sensualist. Likely to have you dress in the lingerie I laid out for you in the bathroom, sit at my feet, and pour me a glass of wine while I look you over to make sure you've acquitted yourself according to my instructions.
Thou:
You read, and are articulate. You're not a bimbo, but you keep yourself fit and dress well. You live for service and take praise as your bread. Perhaps your kink permeates all of life, but it is not the same as life. To wit: you have something going on, some aspirations outside of the home. But domestically, you are eager to do as I say.
Other things:
It would be nice to find someone who likes literature. I am building my own library and have a life goal of getting through another thousand books or so of the Western canon. A suitable mate will like reading in bed. A traveler, someone who enjoys learning or teaching a language, someone who will do the cooking or watch me do it: all of this, as well as an air of public grace consist in the sort of woman for whom I'm looking.