Hey all I now have a wonderful girlfriend and I have been cancer free for well over a year now whoohoo! :) With life looking up definitely wanting to get back into the scene. Definitely not looking for relationships of the sexual variety. Definitely want to make new friends, attend and experience events and learn from well practiced teachers/mentors in the community that can add new exciting techniques to enrich the life we are building together.

Just remember, live life to it's fullest and remember in the end... just have fun :)

about us..
TirraJ:
First off I'm a prostate cancer SURVIVOR :) Well my girl persona is named Tirra, I'm me. A skinny little subbie goth wannabe who's a bit shy at times and a bit of a brat (ok I'm a pain in the ass) to people I know well. When it comes time to play the sub, I'm all ears and will play the part as much as needed. I'm a sci fi geek (Star Wars FTW) and a metal head. Gimme some NIN and anything metal old or new and i'm a happy toy. People have always thought I was a lot younger than I really am, hey I'll run with that, I don't wanna get old, getting old sucks. I got into this whole BDSM thing for a long time but made it more of a lifestyle choice for well over a couple years now. It's been a fun ride so far and what the hell, things a lot of folks call taboo kind of turn me on anyway. I don't however spend my time 24/7 as a female, I know I could pull it off rather easily but this is real life and for as much as I've considered the hormone thing, right now I've got to live in the real world and consider the extremely conservative area I live in to survive. So if and when I choose to go that route, I'd rather be in a position to where I have a career that can adapt to that and not just be working some crappy factory job around a bunch of racist good old boys who just bash this type of lifestyle (yes you will find that a lot around here). I'm not much into frilly clothes or the sissy slut fetishes, sorry it's just not my thing. My style is more on the lines of the rock girl/goth look. Hey, if I'm going to be fem, a brat, and a bit of a slut, I'd rather do it in a style that's more natural to me :) I could possibly get dressed up really pretty for the right person, but it'd take some convincing, lol.

.... And just in case you're wondering, the hair is real, maybe someday the boobs will be too :)

Raelee:

Like my wonderful TirraJ, I am also a cancer survivor but for uterine which resulted in a full hysterectomy in my early 30's. I am new to delving deeper into my more masculine persona that has always been there but was hidden beneath the surface because of society's expectations of who I am supposed to be. I am me no more and no less. Call me vamp or succubus I don't care. I am into many things that if I had money I would be called eccentric for now I am merely insane, to truly know me is to talk and engage my mind. I may be short but I am fierce and will protect what I hold dear to my heart. I have spent several years in the lifestyle and have learned and grown much and it was heartbreak that set me to walking away from a part of myself. One can never deny and bury who they are, for to do so is to die a slow death of the soul. Many call me switch as I can and do enjoy both as long as in the end I make my love happy and that is what matters most to me. If there is something you wish to know ask, for there is no dumb questions save one that is never asked. More may come in time till then live, love, and be happy.