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About Me
- I can now host. To get to my house, you will be a special woman.

- I shall not be active for the foreseeable future. I apparently cast a wide shadow and am more memorable than I expected, and I never know whom I may run into with my current job.

- BDSM to me is an extension or an evolution of a vanilla relationship. If I do not feel mutual vanilla chemistry with you, I will not pursue a BDSM relationship. Ive been without passionate or good-quality sex for long enough that I no longer crave random sex and nonproductive relationships anymore.

- My desires for BDSM are bedroom-oriented. Whether I am dominant or submissive depends on whom I am talking to, and how our relationship evolves. I do not NEED to be anything.

- My vanilla hobbies include networking, videography and photography, business development, gardening (edibles and yuccas), and cooking.

- I am strong-willed, direct, and loyal (when it is earned). Few will appreciate this. I have been alone long enough to be okay with being alone. I will continue to be alone for as long as I need to until the right one comes along. I have many acquaintances but few friends because I believe in quality over quantity. And when people turn away from me (loyalty broken), I do not forget.

prerequisites

1. If you ask for or need money to play, look elsewhere.
2. No smoking around me. I can no longer tolerate it. I am old and cranky.
3. No drug users. My career cannot afford the risk of association.
4. Please live a clean, hygienic lifestyle. I am unsettled around filth or
horrid pervasive smells.

hard limits (applies to physical andor intimate contact)

1. I do NOT play with feces, urine, blood, or animals
2. Based on recent experience, no frequent smokers either, around me or not.
3. I will NOT undergo electricity, permanent modifications, or extreme pain
4. I do NOT play with ANYONE under 18 (hard limit). To be safe (because women look so young these decades), noone younger than 40 outside of a mentor relationship (soft limit) unless I know you well
and we enjoy each other.
5. I will NOT play with karyotypic males or Kleinfelters individuals...
noone with Y chromosomes in their cells!

Few make it this far I applaud your perseverance should you read this!