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prettyjellybean
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Washington 5' 8"
60
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Caucasian
04/19/24 |
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Quiet intellectual Domme looking for submissive male partner. I am not a partier, my idea of a good time is settling in with a book, going to an art house movie, a good conversation, running errands with friends... I enjoy the small everyday graces and find comfort in those who are loyal, honest, compassionate, and kind. I come across a bit aloof at first, but with time you will find that I take great joy in being able to relax with you and show my goofier side.
Im monogamous and have zero interest in a poly relationship or cuckolding. Is it possible to have less than zero interest? If so, mark me down as that.
I do have a standard by which I expect you to behave - respectful, communicative, attentive, and fully present. I also expect you to have thoughts and opinions, and to share them. Ds is a partnership, and both must support each other in their roles. I am not looking for someone who turns their brain off and just chants Yes, Miss. I am looking for a real person with heart and spirit, who is able to function independently as an adult, and wants to bring things to the partnership instead of needing to be taken care of. By things I do not mean that I am looking for payment or tribute, I mean that you should be self-aware and capable of working on your own issues. I will help and guide where needed, but I expect you to be self-aware and not running to Ds to hide from the world or have someone fix you.
My age is up to date as of November 2021. If the age on your profile is not correct, please let me know. I will not respond to messages from subs in their 20s and 30s.
Fair warning I am very direct. I am also shy. Yes, a Domme can be dominant and shy. No, on the surface you would not guess that I am shy. However, with an intimate partner, it will come up from time to time, so in addition to taking direction please appreciate that sometimes we will both need a little space and privacy.
I enjoy good manners, and will expect you to know or be willing to learn how to cook, give a really good massage, be willing to learn new skills as requested, and bonus points if you are handy.
Do not message me if you are married. Do not message me if you are in a relationship. Do not message me if you are in the process of leaving a relationship. Do not message me if you are racist, homophobic, ageist, classist, uhm..... or any other ist. If you are a bible thumper, we are not going to get along. Having some sort of spiritual belief is fine, trying to shove it down the throats of everyone else is not. Have kids? Im fine with that, but I do expect you to parent responsibly and not introduce new people into your childrens lives until a relationship is established or likely. Dont have kids? Im fine with that also.
Please note, I do not friend people I havent met in person.
What a relationship would look like A lot like a vanilla relationship, with an added and strong Ds component. I practice the mental and emotional aspect of Ds, and know that you can take direction in jeans and a t-shirt. If you can only picture your Domme in fetish gear, dispensing kink to you at your whim, kindly move right along. If you are looking for emotional intimacy and companionship, well, maybe you should stay awhile.
I have reached a point in my life where I would like to settle down with a partner for the long haul. I am not interested in online play, a casual play partner or penpals. If you are too frightened to talk on the phone after getting to know each other a bit, or if you do not have the intention to meet in real life at some point, then we are not a match.
I am a real person, looking for another real person who is interested in a long term monogamous relationship and who understands that relationships require work. Kindly treat me as a real person and not a fetish.
*I have listed rubber play as a hard limit due to a latex allergy, so that truly will not ever be happening, and best to be upfront with that. A couple of other quick notes - I will not respond if your profile is full of dick pics (not looking for a sub whos gotta show his wang to the world to feel manly) and I prefer to reinforce positive behavior through reward and privileges so if you are a brat we would not be a happy pair.
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3/29/2024 6:38:33 PM: 'What do you think of women?’ she asked. ‘I’m not a thinker. Every woman is different. Basically they seem to be a combination of the best and the worst – both magic and terrible. I’m glad that they exist, however.'”- Charles Bukowski
3/16/2024 5:56:47 AM: It has been an interesting week.
A friend expressed that they have been having difficulty with their sleep schedule. I offered to assist.
I drew up an agreement and we went out for tea to do the signing. I presented them with a nightlight that has a timer. At the designated time, all electronics are put away and the timer is set for 30 minutes. They may then read in bed until the light goes out.
The first night they set their timer nine minutes later than agreed on, so I had them refold all their socks using my preferred technique. By the time we are done with our arrangement I expect that their residence will be reorganized to my satisfaction. I had previously suggested they get a food handlers card, which they've done. I have in mind that at some point in the future they may be baking bread for me. We shall see. If they adhere well to their assigned bedtime, they will be rewarded with a scented spray to mist in the room. This will help signal their brain that sleep time is approaching. Then we will start moving sleep time earlier, till they are on an earlier schedule.
Some of the penalties for screwing up bedtime will benefit me, some will improve their environment, and some will just be thoroughly annoying for my amusement. They have signed away their right to ask anything about my reasoning. I admit, when they indicated they might want my help, I cackled. I also warned them that they will have a different view of me after this. Little do they know, they have invited stealth disruption into their life. And they are going to have the cleanest windows ever. I'm sure a future partner will appreciate their improved housekeeping skills.
2/26/2024 1:45:27 AM: Things I didn't think I'd have to say:
No cultists please.
2/10/2024 3:11:03 PM: I received a question about the MsC Worldwide Conference I posted about (I will be attending it and recommend it). To clear up a few things:
I don't work for the conference.
I am not personal friends with the organizers or any of the presenters.
All of the information about the conference is on their website. If you have questions about the conference, look at the website.
The conference is virtual. That means ONLINE ONLY.
The days and times of the classes are on the website.
2/10/2024 6:41:41 AM: I have just signed up to attend MsC Worldwide 2024. MsC stands for Master/slave Conference. It's a virtual event with many presentations and discussions. I attended for the first time last year, and it was excellent. It takes place from February 16-19, and registered attendees have access to recordings of the sessions for several weeks afterward. That was highly valuable because I could listen to things at my own pace and not get burnout. And, there are over 60 presentations scheduled. I won't have to miss any of them, I can listen to them all If I'm so inclined.
If you do this for real, or are interested in learning what we real people do, it's an amazing resource.
Theres more info on the MsCWorldwide.org website.
I'm so excited. When I attended last year, the quality was over the top.
It is not geared toward porn fantasists or online roleplaying. It's for people who do this in real life. There are great presentations even if you are not currently partnered. Super looking forward to it. And since it's online, I can attend in my pajamas or eat a taco or do whatever the hell I want during the presentation. Last year I attended a couple of the presentations from the bathtub haha. Very cozy during rainy weather!
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