Im just a blue collar male that has his life together. I work a full-time job, have my own car, place, retirement fund, all that good stuff.



Ive been in the lifestyle since I lost my virginity in it at 17. I have been dominant most of my life and I have been submissive for parts of it as well. I believe the fine balance of being a switch defines me pretty well, though labels in general are a skewed thing in defining who we are as people. I tend to think that we all have both sides in us, its just a matter of deciding which one takes the lead at that time.



Most people see switches as people who sit on the fence in the lifestyle, going with how the wind blows at any particular moment. I tend to agree, though with me, being a switch is a centering point. And when I lean towards one side or the other (depending on who I am with) I tend to go to the extreme of each side.



Im pretty normal (whatever that means anymore) but I am far from close minded. I dont wish to list every fetish on this site that I am into, mainly because I dont want my whole page filled with everything, but also because I tend to gauge it all depending on who I am with and who I am around.



Drug disease free, HIV negative, and all that good stuff.



I am looking for friends, people to attend events with, and whatever really comes my way. Not actively seeking any one thing out in particular. So if you just want to chat or what have you, shoot me a message.





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