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Hello!

Educated, very smart, but humble enough to still be able to learn, healthy, sexy, loving submissive here actively searching for her last one and only. Please read my profile and journals to get a sense about me before contact. No smokers, married, liars, wannbes, etc. need to contact me; I'm not interested at ALL. Thanks!

Experienced in kink and the public and private BDSM world; since my first Dom in HS. I really never knew anything different. But a kinky relationship is so much more than just the sex.

Not your 'typical sub'; I'm a funny, very fit, vivacious, astute, kind, healthy, sexy kitten, who needs your strong, intelligent, sensual, thoughtful Domination.

Must be alike enough to meld, different enough to stimulate.

I love cooking and service, giving great head, sailing, hiking, museums, no panties, cuddling, antiques, massages and personal care, making you a cocktail, getting wet with a look, deep intelligent conversations, travel. I have my life together and I'm ready! I have a TON to give and offer to the right Dominant!

I want a D/s commitment that lasts; emotionally intelligent, best friends, power exchange and vanilla balance, honest, laughter, music, travel, protocols, holding hands, rope, spankings. I don't just imagine this, I can make it happen.

But only together can we make a spark that becomes a flame.

Let's talk.

Bring it home, babe....Love will be right here. https://youtu.be/vHwXoY0LiQk?si=VEbDUQqH-2h6Oe7C

A strong Dom might sing this to me... https://youtu.be/OJWJE0x7T4Q?si=GQFQvgev8EiYpAlS

To paraphase an important message, turned on it's 'bottom' for us in the kinky world: Ask not what your sub can do for you, but what can you do for your sub? Most subs know what to give, how to give, how to submit, when to submit, and what's needed to give their submission to a worthy Dominant. But it's often the Dominant that doesn't realize it's a two-way street of giving, an exchange after all, and many Doms I have encountered here don't have much of an idea what they are offering to give to their subs, other than their time, their discipline, their specific knowledge. That's no small matter, but don't you give some parts of that to other important people in your life? Your charges at work? Your children? The question becomes, perhaps for BOTH of us, what unique values, attributes, feelings, expeiences, wisdom, are we exchanging, what are we giving to each other? Let's talk about that. Let's see what we can offer and give to each other in order to grow and flourish, together. That takes a deep conversation, a self and other knowledge. Let's go there!

Time to put out another...message in a bottle. If you are going to contact me; Be polite. Politeness costs your nothing. And it shows manners. Be consistant. If you want to know all about me, and ask questions, then reply to my responses in a timely manner. If you don't have further interest, kitten is a big girl and you can just say so. Be honest. I don't want to have to ask you 50 questions to finally get you to fill in the bigger picture of your wants and needs, OK? We can be flirty and fun and joke around, but we both should have an appreciation for and skill in using direct honesty. Be informed. Did you read my profile and my journals before contacting me? Fantastic! That's the best place to start! I will, of course, be the same! I'm looking for someone wonderful and sexy just like you! Thanks in advance!

This is a very meaningful song to me! If you feel this moves you too, please contact me. https://youtu.be/_oVI0GW-Xd4?si=Cm8wAjGMwDBBWbA2

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