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tallsexybete
Female Dominant, 50, Minnesota 
tallsexybete

UPDATED March 2024

Im looking for a serious long term Ds relationship that would lead to live-in 247. Ive been in the lifestyle a number of years and started out identifying as submissive. I think this is a benefit to my skills as a Dominant. I would identify as a Erotic Dominant. And, I do have interests in other sexually exploratory arts such as tantra and karma sutra. Im semi-active in the local kink community and like to watch and learn from others safe, sane, consensual ways to inflict sweet delicious sensations - from mild to wild.

I am extremely open minded and adventurous!  Although I do have some limits and boundaries that may be flexible over time and trust is built.  It's all about adventure, exploration and DISCOVERY!  I'm 100 percent authentic, genuine, raw and incredibly kind.  Until I'm NOT!

I am open to chatting and talking with most everyone - as online or real life friends.  However, I feel I need to clarify that I am currently looking for natural born accomplished submissive men for partnership.  I have relaitonships with many different people and dont see that changing.  I know I'm more open relationship minded.  I am exploring poly.

Life goals:
* global travel
* BDSM events and parties
* Living the dynamic 247 - as lead by myself, with considered input from my partner(s).

If you're a Dominant man and interested in me?  I require that you be open minded to bottoming with me if the chemistry is there.  Bottom line with that dynamic is mutual RESPECT.  I am not interested in being a puppet to your design.  I am a strong, confident, self actualized woman and I love who I am.

Ultimately any man I choose to be with should ADORE me as is.  I realize I'm not perfect and I have things to work on too.

I enjoy receiving chivalrous acts from a man. I also think pleasantries are a nice way to interact and touch base. I enjoy a man with character - his own views of the world and a backbone to get what he needswants. Wed get along in a myriad of ways, not only related to BDSM.

I am a laid back person by nature and semi-private with a few close friends. Most of my family has passed away and the ones left that I care about do know I'm kinky!  I am compassionate, free-spirited, kind and honest. I am open minded and a bit taboo curious. Cultivating a deep meaningful connection is paramount. I dont have a lot of immediate protocol, but I do see boundaries and rules being developed over time and getting to know one another. I do want someone that has his own life - his own means of support and able to support me in my endevors, but is looking to enhance his life with someone special. Someone open to love - giving and receiving. Someone looking to explore internally just as much as externally.

NOW is the TIME!  I have sacraficed enough time devoting my life to family and work.  I currently have support to travel anywhere to meet anyone that is serious and willing and able to do that with your help!  I hope to connect with someone that is genuine about their search. Please, when inquiring be thoughtful in your approach to engage conversation and show you are more than just a hello.  These one liners do not bode well with me!

I update my journal regularly and there are many of my thoughts there.  An ongoing evolution and engaging with many different people there's no lack of stimulation and ideas!

Please attach a PHOTO OF YOURSELF when contacting me, thank you in advance.  And Thank You for taking the time to read my profile.  I do hope everyone finds what they're looking for and I do activly educate and try to influence other women about FLR!  I can't be everything to everyone!

ISO submissive men under the age of 50 that are well endowed.   You must be open to relocation to the NW in Canada.  To join poly household.   

Ahh.   I giggle at replies from people younger than 40.  Because I remember feeling like I had time and want in a hurry to live the dream.

How about if a I blocked a bunch of rooms at a hotel somewhere and interested parties come together and see if there's connection?  How about that? What do you think.

Let me try this AGAIN and get more direct with issues I keep running up against.  At this point, I am running out of time!  I have scoured the internet for decades and casually dated along the way.  I have never been married, never lived with a lover.  I have never fallen in love with someone who has felt the same way and can reciprocate and offer a life together.  I am looking for the whole enchilada!  With the FUN toppings! haha I have a drive and ambition to create abundance and live a healthy life!  That doesn't just mean mentally, it means regular exercise beyond walking and eating clean nutrient-rich food vs junk!  But, here I am back at work.  And I'm a person who would work 60 hours a week at my job, because I Have a deep seeded belief and passion for it!  I will be involved for the rest of my life in some form or fashion.  What does this mean for US?   That I can be so damn busy I dont have time to attend and be the FLR & Domme I want to experience TOO!  There's only so many years left at a certain age and it is EXTREMELY important to me how I live them and who I choose to live them WITH!  I'm not looking for problems.  I NEED what I Think is an alpha sub.  Someone that can be in charge if I'm temporarily unable to take the reins!  I need someone with skills that I struggle with.  I'd perfer someone with similar core values, but it totally brilliant in their own right and not jaded by the shit that is going on between people nowadays! - creative as fuck and adventurous!  Like me! I need APPLICATIONS at this point.  I will no longer reply to 'hi, how are you?'  Please don't waste my time.  And if you're really interested in me?  You're going to have to be the persistent one.  I will no longer work HARDER than YOU AND lose bunches of money in the process!  Moving forward MY TIME IS MONEY I COULD BE MAKING SOMEWHERE ELSE! You MUST respond to the following statements.  I don’t care if we’ve spoken before or not.  These statements may be adjusted or change as thoughts come to me.  So stop back if I tell you something has changed or a notion has been added. 1.  I MUST receive a photo of your face!  Not your PENIS or body, at first!   2. I’m looking for two subs at this point.  Ideally?  a) you are 35 to 50 and gainfully employed or independently financially free  b) you are 50 to 65 and you have TIME on your hands and you've planned and want a certain caliber of life till the end! 3.  You MUST be financially savvy.  If you don't have it?  You can make it or GROW it, lots of it and at a steady pace this is historically verified moving forward.  This is a NEED for me, non-negotiable.  I believe this day and age with all the different opportunities to learn something new and find income is as wide open and possible these days as I have ever seen it in my lifetime!  I DO take care of myself and I like my life as is, but WANT to share it and NEED GOOD PEOPLE in my life! 4. You must be height-weight proportionate.  I prefer men who are petite, actually.  I do not care about height!  It's more about what's between you ears and in your heart and connection with me!  And that you can hold an adult conversation – maybe even some CRAZY conversations at times! 5. Be ABLE and WILLING to make active plans to MEET.  My timeline is this – First 3 months getting to know one another online.  Texting, phone calls, video.  3 to 6 months planning to meet.  6 months to a year adjust living circumstances to be living TOGETHER in a year. *NOT INTERESTED IN SISSY OR FEMINIZATION OF MEN AT THIS TIME!  Also, I do not see myself with a Trans partner.  Thanks!   Let FREEDOM ring!   This VISION everyone seems to be dying to know generally looks like at home a SANTUARY free to be myself whatever form that takes in the moment, I am more of a Dance than a Predictable Tool.  I have no choice but to know my mind every second.  That in itself keeps me in trouble.  The people I seek have more to do about bring out the best in me where my soul sings the songs I envision them to be and what I've seen in the world and sometimes experienced myself.  The skill level to MEEt and excede expectations has Yet to Be Met with any real longevity much less reality.  Prove my future wrong.  

ISO an environment that makes ME feel alive.  And that is most likely very different than you've been taught to believe by some other Domme in your past.  Strip the sheets.  I prefer Linen. 

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