Traveling Intelligent Dom Seeking


Not traveling in the near future. I will update this paragraph when I have something scheduled. -- I will be traveling to (pending). Arriving on (pending) and departing on (pending). I am looking for one with a submissive mindset to join me as I sightsee historical points of interest.

If you are a Dom / sub or a sub / sub couple / family (Fm, Ff, fm, ff or any combination), I would enjoy controlling you. I am your Dom / Bull if your relationship has a Vixen/Stag (FM) or a Hotwife/cuckold (Fm). I am not shy and I enjoy being in video or pics, as long as I get copies.

I am not interested in preparing a female submissive for her "real" dominant's use. I will consider select submissive males if their role is that of service, cuckoldry, denial and / or chastity. More about that later. Questions? Feel free to ask.

The following is from my Damien profile, the one based in California

I seek the young in mind and spirit, yet mature in thought and deed. The healthy and fit. The affectionate yet not needy. I am not actively looking to create a 24/7 lifestyle -- at least not until such time as the right submissive enters my life, yet I do not rule out the concept entirely.

The last thing I want in my life is drama. Be forewarned, if drama you bring, interested in meeting you I am not (Do I hear a bit of Yoda?).  If drama rears its ugly head, I will show you the door. I am learning from those that have more experience than me.

If you are a submissive couple (f/m or f/f), I would enjoy controlling you both. I am your Bull if your relationship has a Vixen / Stag or a Hotwife / cuckold dynamic. I am not interested in preparing a female submissive for her "real" dominant's use -- we play together or not at all. I will consider select submissive males if their role is that of service, cuckoldry, denial and/or chastity. Questions? Feel free to ask.

I am 5'10", 175, Caucasian, with brown eyes, salt-and-pepper hair. I am degreed / licensed and certified in many fields, straight (but flexible), drug- and disease-free (STI and COVID tested regularly). I keep my COVID booster shots up-to-date and have had my Mpox innoculation.

I don’t smoke tobacco. While I am a social drinker, I believe in little to no alcohol when my focus is D/s or bondage. I identify primarily as Dominant, however, would not be considered Heavy Protocol or Old Guard.

For lack of better phrasing, "play" should be considered equivalent to: "participate in", "practice", "enjoy", etc. To play is to be light-hearted in the experience. That said, I laugh and smile a lot. If you are looking for a gloom-and-doom dom, sorry to disappoint.

I am into BD/Sm for my own pleasure as well as for my partners'. I enjoy bondage and restraint with ropes, steel and leather. I participate in power exchange, control and subservience, however I do not overuse verbal abuse nor insults (unless we are involved in an interrogation or humiliation scene or you deserve my chastisement). Punishments, when earned, are either dispensed or withheld, at my whim. I revel in shibari, orgasm control (denial, overload and chastity), vibrators, fisting, interrogation, covert and overt public and predicament scenes. I am also formally trained in an extensive array of activities (yes, there is such a thing as advanced BD/Sm training). I am also a presenter and trainer.

If you are drug-, tobacco- and disease-free (or under control for those so afflicted), we might participate in all sorts of experiences. Be height / weight proportionate -- I am. Be relatively intelligent with a modicum of common sense. Be comfortable in your own skin.

I have toys and equipment, however I would be entertained by yours. I enjoy public displays of affection and obedience. We might attend functions or go out-on-the-town while playing (covert scening). If you are so inclined, you could be the of attention of others (under my supervision). I enjoy camping out and traveling so be prepared to come along. I also enjoy taking photo /  video documentation of public nudity, exhibitionism and/or play, but all within a consensual environment (I am not so insane as to want to get arrested for my adventures).

If you are multi-orgasmic (which I assume you are), I enjoy the workout. Prolonged orgasm denial heightens an ultimate climax (or makes the drive home very frustrating).

I am not into disfiguring corporal punishment, bloodletting, scat or play with minors. That does not, however, rule out needleplay, artistic cutting or branding.  These are a few of my limits / dislikes, but as in everything, they are negotiable.  I will need to know yours and to what degree you would want them pushed or exceeded.

Do NOT waste my time if you do not have a serious interest in eventually getting together.

If you are a male sub looking to serve me while I am local, visit the profile for CBKeyHolder. You may ignore the findom references as your service to me will suffice (unless paying our way around town would allow you to feel like your service to me is more worthy of my spending my time with you).