Hi. I am open to playing with women who identify as submissive, but am looking for long term with the right slave. Ideally in a relationship I expect obedience both in the bedroom and outside the home, though in the outside world the control must necessarily be more discreet.

My focus in BDSM is more concerned with the mental and emotional side of training. I do enjoy pushing a slave to see what she is capable of, and believe it can be a powerful tool for training if done properly and safely. Corporal punishment can be a useful tool as well, and can be enjoyable, though for me less so than tease and denial.

I enjoy toys and scenes, but more as a way to further training than simply for play. For me, BDSM and sexuality are closely linked, and I make no effort to separate them. I am more likely to tie a slave down for a prolonged teasing session than to use canes or crops. Either way, the training leads to a better slave, who will take satisfaction in putting my pleasure and happiness above her own.

I do not have a picture on my profile because of my career, and need to keep this side of my life private. Having that job means I have a comfortable life, a nice home, and regular work hours which allow me to time spend with the right person. If we begin talking, I will be happy to provide pictures. Chemistry is important for compatibility. If you are interested, contact me and we will take the next step.