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KylariParadox
Pan Female Switch, 30, Rohnert Park, California US 
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KylariParadox
Dick is abundant and low value. I dont want yours.



If you wouldnt say it to my face in front of your mother, dont say it to me in your opening message.

Im looking for interesting, platonic conversations with interesting folk.

I identify as gender fluid. My pronouns are they them

Im not here to be made to feel uncomfortable by those who arent bright enough to treat me like a fellow human being.



No small talk! Especially not how are you. Answer one of the following questions instead, or come up with your own. Please use coherent sentences!



- What is your favorite movie quote? Why that one?

- If you could get coffee with any fictional character, who would it be and what would you talk about?

- Where do you find your magic?



I identify as asexual, which means kinks are NOT something Im willing to discuss with strangers. End of discussion.



Your opinion on my looks is worthless and actively discouraged.



We are NOT in a dynamic, do not force one on me.



I dont use titles, and do not want to hear them from you, so no Miss, Mistress, Lady, or other. My name is Kylari. Use that.



I am not looking here for anything, other than interesting conversations! I am NOT looking for partners.



I am convinced I am actually dating my cats.

In my non-pervy life I am many things including, but not limited to - Browncoat

- Writer

- A Farm Kid - Rainbow Hunter (Literally)

- WriterEditor - Trekkie - Incredibly silly - Have WAY too much imagination - A closet nudist - Addicted to colorfulhappy socks - In love with my freckles - A bookworm

- A bit of a chatterbox - A firm believer in scented bubble baths and torn jeans... but not at the same time.



Im always on the look out for other people to geek out with and discuss trivia from a variety of showsbooksfandoms including, but not limited to

-Firefly

-Star Trek (TNG DS9)

-IZombie

-Lie to Me

-Harry Potter

-Travelers

-Dr. Who

-Once Upon a Time

-Tinkerbell and the Fairy movies 3

-DisneyPixar

- The 100
12/7/2016 5:06:11 PM: What is your favorite fantasy?I was asked this recently. A fair question I suppose, and one I'm asking on a semi-regular basis. I've just never been able to answer it. About time I took a shot at this. When I've asked people about their favorite fantasies a lot of the time they launch into this epic thriller involving Meghan Fox and a wading pool full of jello to wrestle in (strawberry of course), and often a duck watching from the corner. More power to you for having such a clear visual of what you want! Seriously, you are way ahead of me. My fantasies aren't visual, in fact, there is rarely if ever a visual component to my fantasies. I fantasize about the feeling of your fingers tracing along my back, the warm prickle of your stubbly cheek against the back of my neck. I fantasize about the scent of you in my bed, smelling you on my pillow. I fantasize about what you taste like when you kiss me, the taste of your skin when I bite your shoulder. I fantasize about your heart beat, your breath against my skin. I fantasize about the tiny intake of breath when I touch you, the way fire follows your fingertips down my stomach. I fantasize about every touch, every scent, every sound, every moment... But I can't see anything. Apparently all of my fantasies involve me being blindfolded... Maybe I am just not as visual as I like to think I am... Either way, I hope that answers that question.

9/15/2016 7:18:51 PM: Ignoring someone's profile proves beyond a shadow of a doubt one of two things: either A: you are too lazy to read my profile. In which case there is no reason why I should waste my time on you. Or B: You read it and ignored it because your wants are more important than my boundaries. That makes you dangerous, untrustworthy and possibly a rapist; after all, they have the same mentality.

4/17/2016 12:26:57 PM: I'm not looking for partners. I don't see the point really, I'm too busy with the new business I started. However, I have learned over the years that if I write it all down, and get it out into the universe, its a lot more likely to happen.He is at least 6 feet tall, so he can look me in the eyes.He smokes too, and doesn't judge me for it, but instead smokes with me.He understands the need for protocol that I feel.He respects me as a person, and understands the boundaries I have are there for a reason.He loves coffee, Star Trek, and sushi.He understands the cathartic value of impact play.He enjoys writing for its own sake.He shares my brand of humor.

2/27/2016 6:10:57 PM: 'i just wana rape that tight ass' I'm a survivor of not one rape, but multiple rapes by multiple men. 'Why don't u meet me tonite? Ill show you a good time.' My last date ended with him ripping my shirt open in the middle of Starbucks, and no, that's the opposite of my idea of a good time. 'Nasty bitch!' We had just been talking about how I was literally in the middle of an emotional break down. Way to be a supportive fucking friend. 'u just need a real man to fuck u right' Frankly I don't disagree, I do disagree with you being that man. 'I would do such nasty shit to that pussy' What pussy? OH! You mean the one that isn't in ANY FUCKING PICTURE I HAVE UP? What all these comments have in common is that the person who said it immediately backtracked and said it was just a joke. This shit isn't funny. That is why I've given up looking for that special someone, because its not worth my sanity. Why is threatening to rape someone ever funny? Or kidnapping? I had one guy threaten to rape the children he planned to father on me. There is NO tone on the internet. You WILL be believed, even if its just by someone like me, who should know better than to be anywhere near the freaking internet when I feel this fragile. Rape culture has people like me trapped. I've been raped by 5 different men. Think about that for a minute. My body has only been 'My own' for a couple years. Not because of kink or any positive reason, but because I was never allowed bodily autonomy, not by my family, not by my boyfriends, hell not even most of my friends. Its only the last few years that I've realized that my body is MINE. I honestly thought men were -supposed- to write shit like what is above. I thought sex was something women gave to the people who demanded it or just wanted it. Or even the people she thought should like her. I've only been sexually attracted to three people in my life! And yet my 'score' is pretty damned high. I'm sick of the bullshit. I'm sick of butthurt asswipes bitching that it was only a joke. Its only a joke if I get to out YOUR sister at work. Its only a joke if I get to rape YOUR mother. Or trap your daughter in a kitchen surrounded by drunken shits who are all hands. After all, if its only a joke when it happens to me then it should still qualify as a joke if I do it to you.

2/26/2016 2:37:08 PM: My screen saverI finally remembered to link my 'Awesome pictures' folder to my screensaver. So now the currently 2500 pictures slowly drop into a pile like leaves or playing cards. Generally you can clearly see maybe a dozen different pictures, with more falling every 30 seconds or so. I love this format. It makes me think of mash-ups in a way. These pictures cover a lot of ground. Pictures of misty mountain tops, and coral on the ocean bottom; pictures of Disney princesses, and Totoro; pictures of tattoos, and furniture. Sherlock is there, and Mal, Zoe and the rest of the crew. Sam and Dean, Matt Smith, David Tennant, Calvin and Hobbs, Winnie the Pooh. Pictures of my pets, and even a couple of me. Cross sections of grapefruit, corsets and heels, water fountains. Abstract landscapes, animals of every type that could qualify as cute and may possibly have a good side. Women I admire, authors I can't put down, quotes I want to remember, pop culture moments I don't want to forget, patterns for scarves, sweaters and recipes. Alan Rickman, Johny Depp, Vanellope, two snails using mushrooms as umbrellas... or maybe swords. Pictures people have created which defy definition. Birds that swim and fish that fly. But the longer I watch the more a clear pattern appears: If its a picture of a human it will be a strong/beautiful/talented/well-tattooed feminine human, doing something active and impressive, quite possibly wearing something I wish I was wearing, or a generally mostly clad masculine human smoking, reading a book, drinking coffee or laughing. The females outnumber the males about 45 to 1. I have literally hundreds of pictures of doors, gates, tunnels, portals of varying styles. I also collect beds and bathtubs. Almost half of these pictures involve Disney princesses in some way. There are a lot of nudes, but most of them do not qualify as 'sexy', but they are fascinating studies of texture, of light vs shadow, of the human condition. This collection inspires me, strengthens me, gives me hope, and keeps me grateful. Its my daily reminder to myself that magic is real, and that -we- create it. Some days that is all that keeps me going in this mad world we have to live in. Some days I watch the news, or read the paper and am horrified at the way human beings treat each other, on the small scale we mug, rape, manipulate and lie. On a huge scale we are blind to the simple fact that we are ALL HUMANS, regardless of color, flavor or belief. Some days that is all I can see. Sitting here, watching these pictures slowly pile up, strengthens me. I am reminded that it may be harder to see sometimes, but there is just as much good in the world as bad. Everyone needs to be reminded some times.

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