3/9/2018 8:02:15 AM: My profile to March 2018 which is in process of revision.Here for reference.  I may delete later but it could be interesting for you to know the background_____________________________________________Latest news I'm in Southern France in Collias (30) for the winter.  Any one want to join me for a weekend, or more, of hedonistic excess?    Même les femmes ou couples français seront bien accueillis pour un temps de folie et d'hédonisme sans aucune limite dans un lieu privé et isolé     So difficult to sum up a life time in a few lines but I want you to know as much as I can without being too enigmatic.   Yes we were a couple and had been for a long time.  The magic has gone.  No one’s fault and we are still open with one another.  We both realise the we need to go our own ways and are now single. To be clear.   I seek a new beginning, leaving baggage behind, whilst retaining a life's time of experience, frivolity, hedonism and laughter.   She was younger than I but had lost much of her adventurous spirit. I, on the other hand, seem to grow and blossom in my search for new and different ways to explore my sensuality and sexuality even though, if I’m truly honest, my ability is quite diminished from when I was twenty years younger.  No, not dysfunctional just enjoy taking the time to “complete” and relishing all the different possibilities that can be shared and enjoyed in that extended time.   No I’m no ingénue or tyro; been there done it.  A few regrets but, looking back, nothing I’m ashamed of.    These days I find I can’t share the adventures that I truly want to.  There are too many times when I have to hold back.  My tastes are wild and varied even though I may appear so urbane and civilised.  I can’t just sit back and let life float by, I need the stimulation of sharing feelings, plans, outings, and real adventures.   A friend.  Yes a true friend who can empathise, share, join in and become a true partner in excess. Hopefully as a couple sharing life together.  Someone who has that deep burning passion within themselves.  Someone who can converse, be open, feel free and be a part of my life in every way that is possible.  Probably submissive but no pushover.  Definitely highly sexual but to all outward appearances no tart.  Someone who will probably have so much about them that it will take ages to find, and admit to, all their foibles and peccadilloes.   Someone to share my life with, breaking out and setting us both free.   Am I asking for too much?  **No**, but I’m asking for a lot and realise that it will come gradually as trust, compatibility and empathy is established.  However a lightning bolt of realisation that we both want the same things would be so welcome.   ### *Does any of this resonate with you?*   Are you ready to try a honest, intimate, adventurous, taboo friendship that has huge expectations but no initial demands?  I am.   Drop me a note, say hello, we have nothing to lose and, possibly, everything to gain.   **ALL the things that we BOTH want and none of the secrets or untruths that can destroy relationships** .   The photos show a delicious friend who shares secrets and her body with me, my Baby Girl, with whom I still play, she is married, a delicious feathered mask, story of 'O' style, a recent tying I did for a friend's wife and the girls enjoying themselves at a party I held a while ago.

12/3/2017 1:21:03 PM: I have just noticed '50 shades the film' on mainstream television here in France.It is labelled as suitable for those of 12 years and over.Just about right I would say.Vive La France!!!The adverts, mainly for perfume, aftershave, body products etc.  Are sexier than the film.

9/3/2017 12:21:04 AM: I get a few responses that say 'Too far away' or 'I'm not into Bisexual men'Let me clarify these entries.I didn't want to put straight as it has somewhat homophobic undertones and I have no problem with the presence of men, even slipping their cocks into my, willing, partner.  I would not deny her that pleasure if it was appropriate at the time.  I don't seek out men, I prefer women but a petite convincing TS or TV could be very interesting and I have dabbled there before.  I want this profile to be as honest as possible so Bisexual seemed that only honest answer.Distance is similarly difficult.I'm looking for a partner, someone with whom to share all of life's wonders.  If they are nearby that would be wonderful and easy.  However I will relocate for the right person.  Admittedly that would mean difficulties in the initial stages when compatibility, mutual trust and understanding are being established but I am searching for a long term partner and have a positive 'can do' outlook and will overcome that distance hurdle if there seems to be a reasonable chance we will be a match.I would hope, even expect, that anyone I meet would have a similar positive outlook in their search.I hope that gives clarification to you about my inclinations and intentions.

8/21/2017 3:01:20 AM: I rarely write here.  Life streams past, sometimes too fast, too furious, filled with the necessities and urbanities that occupy the waking hours though often it is pitted with voids, empty moments with no imperatives and the accompanying idle mind that can be filled with the nonsenses that are my unstructured, unplanned, perhaps subconscious, often unproductive thoughts.These are often sexual, certainly hedonistic and mainly unfulfilled.  Future plans of a life alone but with a partner under the same roof.  A symbiotic, non possessive, free, untrammelled mutually supportive co-existence that permits, even encourages, individual privacy and mental playtime yet has a core of reciprocated trust, inevitability and even devotion that binds, forges and manufactures a unity of being, an unquestioned sharing of time and space that becomes the core of a forever partnership in a life of profligate self-indulgence that requires no negotiation or structure.  A joint enterprise of willing equals.Yes a dream, a fantasy, a cerebral adventure of possibilities.  How I wish it could be a reality.  A permanent tangible reality to retreat to when we have the need, the urge, the time and the space.Shared appreciation of the sublime, the sardonic, the impractical, the amusing, the breath-taking, the immoral, the possibilities, the impossibilities and the joys of wonder and mental, as well as physical, gymnastics.Enough self indulgent musing.  It should be elsewhere, not here.I have the arrogance to hope that another may read this and empathise, have similar thoughts and the, hesitant, desire to become complicit with me. All coupled with my humility to be aware that it is a stream of consciousness that will be derided, dismissed and scanned past.In which case I add a titillation that, to my current mind-set, should be viewed in its entirety.http://motherless.com/37E5008There is more should you enquire.

10/15/2015 12:56:21 PM: Overall it is very pleasant to receive complementary messages. It is equally irritating when all they say is you are too far away. I often admire profiles of photographs and very occasionally compliment the user on a particularly good profile photograph but never do I say they are too far. we are all in the community where everything is accepted just dont message saying 'nice but too far' Cheers everyone!